Saturday, November 14, 2009

Where can I go to find Aladdin or Arabian themed Wedding Cakes and decor?

I am Indian but my fiance is Middle Eastern so I want to bring in some culture. I am Christian, so I wont be having a traditional "Indian" wedding. Thats why I like the idea of an Arabian Nights theme. I dont want to go overboard and make it look like a circus. And even though I want most of it to be white, I want to add some bold Indian/Middle Eastern color. Starting with the cake. But I cant even find a pic or two just to give me an idea. If I could find anything with Disney Aladdin and Jasmine on a magic carpet.... would be perfect.

Where can I go to find Aladdin or Arabian themed Wedding Cakes and decor?
Any reputable cake maker should be able to work with you, come up with ideas, and show you what they would look like. If you just ask for some ideas, you haven't committed to working with them, and will get an idea of whether you like what they do. Good luck!
Reply:For Aladdin decorations go to ebay for starters.Type in aladdin and jasmine,magic carpet,or just aladdin cake toper. There is a Aladdin-Blue-Teapot-with-Gold.. you can use that as a decoration, there is some cartoon looking stuff on there if your looking for them. ebay.com/aladdin-arabian-ceramic-lamp-ca... this helps.
Reply:Google Taj Mahal wedding cake and/or Moorish architecture.





You should find a cake replica of the Taj Mahal.





Moorish architecture has fabulous mosaic tiles in vivid colors that would look awesome on a cake or as decorations for your wedding. This theme sounds very romantic! Have fun planning.


There was a movie I used to watch when I was little...what was the name?

It was a cartoon, kinda Aladdin, Arabian Nights-ish. It was about a Princess ( a lot like Jasmine from Aladdin) and like a shoe maker or pauper. They end up falling in love.


And the palace the princess lived in had 3 golden balls at the top that "protected" the people or something like that.


That's about all I can remember.....anyone have any clue what the name was?

There was a movie I used to watch when I was little...what was the name?
The Thief and the Cobbler (1993)


aka The Princess and the Cobbler


IMDB synopsis:


When Tack upsets Zigzag the Vizier, the wizard drags him off to the royal castle, where Princess Yum Yum falls for the bashful boy and saves him from execution. Unfortunately, Zigzag plans to marry the princess in order to succeed her father, King Nod. The Thief, meanwhile, is more interested in gold than love and takes off with the protective orbs topping the palace. Together Tack and Yum Yum attempt to retrieve them in order to prevent Zigzag and the One-Eye army from conquering the city.





Here are some videos on YouTube:


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eeOq3O1Mr...
Reply:What year was this..if you could figure out the year it's easier to pin point the film..You're sure it was animated? usually you can search animated movies by year...It doesn't sound familiar to me...the only movie I know with a pauper is "The Prince and the Pauper"





Here it is..princess and the cobbler

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Do you guys like this SONG!???

this is a group from the Philippines called South Border


and I just listened to this song last night and I liked instantly so I just wanna know if yall like it too





http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gWtrkp0IU...


(please listen to the whole thing if u can)





theres lots of good filipino singers just like the new lead singer of Journey (Arnel Pineda) a Filipino..hes amazing..


Ramielle Malubay and Jasmine Trias (American Idol)


Charice Pempengo (newly discovered)


and Nicole Scherzinger (Pussycatdolls - Half Filipino)


and Vanessa Hudgens (Half Filipino) Apl (Blackeyed Peas)





im pretty sure theres more but yeaa

Do you guys like this SONG!???
Love Asians Only Suckaz!!!!!! Got mad love for Flips!!!!
Reply:nah not really sorry
Reply:Nah, was way tooo boring
Reply:hell yeaaaaaaa they sing niceeeeeeee
Reply:its okay...but not extremely awesome
Reply:Say goodbye, say hello to a lover or friend Sometimes we could never understand Why some things begin with just love


We can never have it all No no no ohh





But oh, can't you see That no matter what happens Life goes on and on And so baby just smile Cause I'm always around you And I'll make you see How beautiful life is For you and me





Take a little time baby See the butterfly's colors Listen to the birds That were sent to sing For me and you Can you feel me? This is such a wonderful place to me











Oh my gosh that is such a wonderful song!! I absolutely love it!! The lyrics are so great and the beat is very catchy! Thank you for posting that song...it made my day!


Time to plant?

With the weather warming, like many of us, I am DYING to start some seeds. I have an unheated greenhouse, with a dirt floor, fiberglass roof, and fiberglass walls. There are single pane windows on every side, and the walls are covered in house wrap. When is it safe to start some seeds out there? Can I harden off my plants in there as well? If they are inside this dwelling, will they still get frosted/froze? I took them out of their insulated building today that has artificial light, to give them some sunlight and fresh air, but was afraid to leave them out all night, especially not weaning them off the warmth. I live in Zone 5 and have plants of every type, from orchids to jasmine, to cactus and succulents. I have thousands of seeds that I can direct sow, but some I prefer to start myself. When I can I use my new greenhouse!!

Time to plant?
NOW!!!!!!!


get a high/low thermometer and put it in there that way you will know what temperature it is running at night. (they cost about $10-15)





if possible look into getting a bench mat or seed sprouting mat that will extend the usefulness of your greenhouse several months.





Any how...arrange the seed that you do have in the order that they can be sowed.


the varieties that can take the cold: peas, spinach, lobelia, pansies, petunias, broccoli, cauliflower, etc





once you know what the night temp is in the greenhouse you will have a better idea of how much stuff you can get stared on.





there are a lot of seeds that need the heat to sprout but are just fine in an area with cooler temps once they are above ground.





if the greenhouse is running cold at night increase the thermal mass within the structure ( rock, bricks, jugs of water, cement etc) this will also help it from having wildly fluctuating temps.





a lot of plants can handle lows of about 43 without slowing them down.


caladiums like it at least 70


Is this the true music of a storm?

................Music Of The Bells








Sun bells! Sun bells!


Tinkling serendipity


Circling jasmine pinwheels


Inviting flights of


Hummingbirds


To dine...


Emerald twinkles...


Flashing...gone


Before thunder.





Sun bells!


Staccato gongs among


Stormcloud booming,


Looming...


Shadows shifting


Between clashes of


Lightning...


Cymbals in rythmn.





Silence of the bells.


House lights down...


Orchestra crescendo


Rising long, longer...


Peaking in one


Final note...


Diminishing, admonishing...


Night cello.





Elysabeth

Is this the true music of a storm?
This is very nice. I would say yes to your question! =]
Reply:Very cool
Reply:Again, nice Elysabeth!!





Timothy





:o)
Reply:Yes; I can hear the music as the storm intensifies and then fades away because the imagery is so vivid and alive. I really enjoyed this.
Reply:Ohhhhh...this one is yummy. I've got one of these. I will dig around in the shoebox...


What should i do about my boyfriend of 8 months he is acting weird and says he doesnt trust me now?

4th of july me and my boyfriend planned 2 hang out so when the time came i had a few of my other friends come also 4 girls and a boy so when i called my bf 2 ask him if he was gonna come he said no i asked why and he said because it seemed like i already had plans. so i was like what do u mean i had plans 2 hang out with u but he got mad a started calling me dumb and a ***** and he hung out with his friends then he texted me and told me that he never wants 2 hang out with me again or talk 2 me but later that night he called me and asked me where i was and then we met up but he wouldnt talk 2 me at all then we went to mcdonalds and i sat with my friend jasmine at a booth and he sat a table with his friends so then this guy raymundo sat next to me idk if that made him mad or not but i dont like raymundo eww and i would never think of cheating on him so later he walked me half way home and then all of a sudden he left later we made up a little and he kissed me he still doesnt trust me

What should i do about my boyfriend of 8 months he is acting weird and says he doesnt trust me now?
Maybe he had something very romantic planned for just the two of you. It sounds pretty obvious that he wanted to spend time with you and you invited 5 other people.





When the other guy sat with you did you move or sit with him? You knew that your bf was already upset.
Reply:he sounds psycho. They say the person who doesnt trust is the person who is doing something bad. You need to find someone else. He is really not a good person to be with. TRUST ME PLEASE! Sounds like a future domestic abuser!
Reply:ok looks like he is feeling guilty and blaming u for it... he must have done something wrong and in reverse blaming u for it, he thinks that u will do he did... my boyfriend sof 4 years was just like that, he wud call me names and swear at me but at the end of the day come to me for cuddles and sexs, he also never trusted me.. guys like this have issues and they need to deal with them, u need to tell him if he has done something he shud tell u and get over it and nt to blame u for his mistakes..its just 8 months for u so pls move on, dont be stuck like me in a sticky situation of 4 years...
Reply:SOUNDS LIKE HE JUST WANTED TO BE WITH YOU ALONE AND YOU INVITED YOUR FRIENDS. IF YOU'RE TOO YOUNG FOR SEX THEN YOU DID THE RIGHT THING BECAUSE MAYBE THAT'S WHAT HE WANTED AND DIDN'T GET. THAT'S WHY HE'S MAD AT YOU. DON'T FEEL BAD, AFTER ALL YOU'RE STILL GETTING TO KNOW HIM. THOUGH HE SOUNDS LIKE THE BULLY TYPE. THE REASON HE DOESN'T TRUST YOU IS BECAUSE HE'S INSECURE WITH HIMSELF.

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Would you sign this petition?

Because people think it is fun to torture these animals like it's fun for them.Humans (well the bad ones) need to learn that animal cruelty is like abusing your child.That is why it is illegal for you to abuse animals.I watch discovery channel every day and night and I also watch animals cops and when I see these animals being treated like this makes me want to become a vet or an animal cop or something that involves animals instead of becoming a singer.And many people pollute so bad that penguins and other animals that live near or in water are dieing and soon they will become instinct like the other animals that are almost extinct like wolves which I love very much.Wolves,bears,penguins and kind of animal doesn't need to be treated like that.It is horrible to see animals dieing everyday because of pollution or cruelty.It's a horrible site to see and no one wants to see it.Well at least I don't.Sign if you think it should be stopped.I started this petetion!!!!!!!


1.Jasmine Alberni

Would you sign this petition?
Melissa R.





yes i totally agree with you. I'm becoming a vet to help the anI'mals in the shelters. I'm gonna reserve a right to open a haven to rescue them and bring them back to health. im also trying to find a way to make a law in new york to increase the punishment for animal abusers, ban animals testing, ban circuses (they force there animals to do things its impossible for them to do and beat them til there "tame" starve them and hit them constantly) and ban many other animals cruelty actions. its hard work but ill make it.


ill sacrifice my own life to get them heard. i will be there voice since no one else will do it....Peta is trying there hardest but they need to go face to face with the law. George bush ain't got sh!t on me.....!!!!!!!!
Reply:Nice to see another animal activist.


Hell yeah i will sign it!





Ashlee





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Reply:Sarah





Sure why not, someone need to be the voice for animals.
Reply:I love animals! Of course I'll sign it.





Savannah Brown
Reply:2. hannah bell
Reply:i will sign anytthing if it means stopping animal cruelty.


3.tori


even sharks r going extinct b/c of fishermen
Reply:My friend made a website that protested all animal abuse. Email me and I will give you the link, I warn you, the images are graphic.
Reply:I will.....


Kristen F.
Reply:3. Veronica





I feel you on this one, I watch alot of Animal Planet and see alot of sad stories, I would definitely sign


How do we start to wean our 1-year-old off the dummy (pacifier).?

My wife and I seem to have made a rod for our own backs by always giving our little girl, Jasmine, a dummy (pacifier) whenever she is a bit grouchy or tired. Now she won't go to sleep at night without it, although she does sleep perfectly with it. Also when she's happy, which is most of the time, she isn't that interested in the dummy unless offered it directly.





This is far from a desparate situation but we both feel that it would be better if she relied on the dummy less over the next year or so rather than more which I would presume woud happen if we let it.





I'm sure there must be plenty of parents out there with tried and tested techniques for dummy use reduction so I thought, rather than trying to "re-invent the wheel" and work it out ourselves, I'd put this out to the Yahoo community.





Thanks





Brian (London)

How do we start to wean our 1-year-old off the dummy (pacifier).?
I think it's a little too soon to take it away. I would try to limit it to when she is sick or sleepy, but if she really wants it..it's OK to give it to her. It wont affect her teeth at this point.





When you do decide to get rid of it (I suggest around 15-18 months old-wait until there are no vacations or things like that). Do it cold-turkey. We told my older son (he was 17 months old) the "pa" is all gone. It broke my heart the first night. He cried and cried and so did I. The next night he asked for it and we said "all gone"...he cried for about a minute. He never asked for it after that (and never cried about going to sleep either). We are approaching that point with my second son (probably next month or so) and will do it the same way.
Reply:Hi Brian,as a Mother of 22month old who still has a dummy to sleep with I don't personally worry about it.


He only has it at nap time and bed time, it stay in his bedroom and when its time to go to sleep its "dum dum" time. God knows how and when I'll get it off him but I figure he's not going to be 10 with a dummy! (I hope!) and that eventually when he's old enough to realise its for babies he'll give it up. Its not big deal in the whole scheme of things compared with other things in the life of a toddler.


If you do however still decide to ditch the dummy I would personally go with getting rid of it during the day first if that's a problem, leave it a few weeks then try the night time. it'll probably take a few sleepless nights and a fair amount of tears but its all short term, you'll get there in the end.


My Mum in law had 8 kids and she just cut the ends off of them all when it was time to give it up! (may work better with older kids though!) Good luck with it.
Reply:Well you seem quite desperate to get your daughter off the pacifier, even though i am not a parent myself, i have seen what my mother did to get rid of the addiction. Before hand ing the pacifier to your daughter, dip it in something that does not taste good or at least to her, like prune juice or dab some lipstick on the sucking part, do this for a while and hopefully she will get sick of the nasty taste.
Reply:It is very difficult to try to wean a child from it's dummy. Your daughter is only 1 year old and obviously finds it comforting. If you do manage to wean her off the dummy she will probably start to suck her thumb and then you really will have a problem. Thumb sucking can carry on for years, even into adolescence. Whereas a dummy will eventually be gotten rid of. Thumb sucking over a long period of time can cause problems with teeth, not so much dummies. My advice (from experience) would be to stick with the dummy and your daughter will eventually get rid of it.
Reply:you need to be strong and just bin the dummies! both my children had dummies since birth but only asked for them the first night after they had been thrown away. my daughters sent theirs to the "baby reindeers" at christmas and we actually put them in an envelope and posted them in a postbox! how about sending your daughters to the "easter bunny"? make sure you you get rid of them all so you wont be tempted to give in at 3 in the morning and give her one! good luck
Reply:The best advice i can give is to get your baby to throw it away themselves, then you can tell her she threw it away herself and just be strong and dont give her another one. I did this myself it works!! Of course it will take a couple of days but i found that i gave my little boy one of my teddies to lay with and he was happy knowing he had mummys teddy.
Reply:a daycare my kids went to would snip the tips off and the child couldnt suck on it. they would get mad at the "plug" and toss it out and wouldnt stick it back in their mouth. a child there was 24/7 on it and even had speach problems due to the stuck in his mouth all the time. he was 3 and they broke him in a few days.
Reply:i am still going through the same situation.. basically you are gonna have to hide it or throw it away. out of sight out of mind.. that is the best answer.. my son used to use it to go to bed... along with the bottle.. of water.. but now nothing.. out of sight out of mind.. let em cry it out... nothing wrong with that
Reply:Simple really, chuck it out. Give it to the dummy fairies who live in the bin and get on with life without it. This may be quite hard the first few nights, but Jasmine will forget about it in record time! When she asks for it during the day, just say it's gone and distract her with something else until the moment has passed. Give her a favourite teddy to cuddle at night, ignore the crying, don't discuss it at all or make a fuss about it, and you'll find she will learn to get herself to sleep very quickly.


A lot of parents try to wean kids away from things like this slowly, and just end up with more hassle from the follow on problems! YOU are in control, grit your teeth, prepare for a night or two of wailing, and throw it out! It will be over before you know it!!


Good luck


Flea.
Reply:I don't know how you must do it, but you must do it soon.


Otherwise you're looking at lots of money spent on braces later on.
Reply:She seems a little young yet, try only letting her have it at bedtime, we managed with our son at 2 by collecting all the dummies and leaving them out for the dummy fairy who left him a surprise for being such a big boy. Its not an easy task, especially when they are very tired or unwell, but if she is only having it for bed chances are she will spit it out as soon as she is asleep.
Reply:I would advise this gradual withdrawal:


First, confine the paci to the car and house. It is never to be seen in public again. If she has it in the car, she has to leave it in the carseat when she leaves the car. Etc.


Then, when that is acceptable and no longer a fuss (sounds like she's already halfway there on that one), then limit it to the house. It always stays home and never leaves. When she's used to that, limit it to the bed. It never leaves the bed. Ever.


Now at that point you have a decision to make--if you want to lose the pacifier at bedtime as well, sooner or later you'll have to just take it away and let her fuss. Most people don't mind leaving it for bed only till 3 years old or so, once they get to the bed-only point. It's up to you. Personally I think the sooner you take it away 100%, the better. The younger they are, the faster they will get over the "cold turkey" part when you take it away at bedtime.
Reply:With our younger son my husband and I decided to keep dummies in the bedroom as far as possible. As our son got older and his understanding of what was said to him developed (around 15 months) we told him the dummy lived by his bed. He accepted this as he, like your daughter, was a contented child. In part I put this down to his having a dummy in the first place! Sometimes he would go to his room and have a quick chew on his dummy then put it back in the special dish where it lived. We made quite a big thing of all this "living by the bed" and "special dish" with its "little lid" business and never denied his dummy to him when we were at home.


Eventually (though he was about 3) he had given up completely until he found one under the bed, well-chewed and covered in fluff. He made the decision that it wasn't needed after having a good suck on it!


I think you are right to plan this now but giving your daughter some control over the situation will help her to stay feeling comforted by her dummy without it dominating her waking hours.


Best of luck.
Reply:well the best time is usually christmas, and put it on the christmas tree for Santa coming to take it away, but as its a while till christmas,the best thing i can suggest is let her have to go to sleep and take it away from her then


then if she starts to whinge for it, try and tell her even though it will be hard for her to understand, just say shes a big girl now and she doesn't need a dodo(as most call it)


and say the dummy fairy came to take it to give it to another baby


it may take a few tries but keep at it, it will work in the end trust me





good luck
Reply:tell them the bin man took it......it wrkd 4 me.....gud luck
Reply:My daughter has a dummy but we leave it in her bedroom so she knows it is only for sleep. She will not need braces and a dummy is better then sucking a thumb as you cannot take that away. I personally would restict it to the bedroom only and who cares if she has it till she's 20 for bed. I had mine till I was 4 years old and my daughter is now 3 years old and always has it for sleep it doesn't bother me at all. Distraction is the only way during the day and why should it bother you at night, she might start sucking on her thumb if you take it away now as she is so use to sucking on it for night time. I would leave her with a dummy for bed only.
Reply:This is what someone told me and it worked.Keep cotting small pieces off the end of the dummy so when they come to use it they dont get the satisfaction from it and think why do i bother.It doesnt take long either.Good luck.
Reply:I think every child is going to be different - and that's the point - don't think that you must conform to some perfect idea of when the dummy should go.





My 20 month old gave up on his own a month or so back, and it took a week ... First of all my wife and I agreed to stop buying any new ones in the shopping, so he only had his old pacifiers to use, BUT WE DIDN'T CHANGE ANYTHING ELSE. We let him have a dummy when he wanted but without offering. Then over the next few weeks as he started to bite through his old ones he would reject them. After two or three times you could tell he was losing interest in the whole thing.


All plant leaves turning yellow except Bougainvillea.?

Have small garden containing orange jasmine, gardinia, hibiscus and bouganvillea. Only the bougainvillea is doing well; the other plants, without exception possess yellow leaves and/or green leaves that are yellowing.





I live in central florida, zone 10.





Also possess a Lady of the Night that is doing well and was wondering if it would produce seeds by itself?

All plant leaves turning yellow except Bougainvillea.?
It could be an iron deficiency in the soil.


Shakira was not up to her talent?

I was so sad last night, because of shakiras weirdk and rare outfit, and performance. I know she could have benn hot and dne something more much different then play aladins girlfriend jasmine, WHO AGREES?

Shakira was not up to her talent?
I saw It...
Reply:No way! It was cool!
Reply:u mean at the vmas? i thought she moved her body like it was rubber!
Reply:Her singing was bad until she said something in Spanish. The only thing that was great in that performance. Her Spanish singing voice is better any way cause she can sing her *** of when it comes to Spanish.
Reply:alll my friends said that but i didnt see it tho
Reply:Her singing performance wasn't amazing, but shes always a great dancer!
Reply:i wish i was as good as her.

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Baby names??

No, I'm not pregnant and im def not thinkin about it anytime soon but me n my fiancee were playn around with baby names last night and we came up with a few I just want opinions (like are they too out-there or whats your favorite) our last name is Caceres (Kah-ser-es)





(girls)


Jasmine Alicia Caceres


Brooklyn Rene Caceres





(boys)


Darius Michael Caceres


Bradley (didnt pick a middle name) Caceres





can anyone think of any other names that would go good with that last name (for a boy)? :-D thanks guys

Baby names??
Bubblelicious. or maybe J-Rod
Reply:Cujo Caceres
Reply:This link will help you a lot..It even tells what the name means!!!!





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God Bless!
Reply:Jasmine is the perfect name
Reply:Bradley Darius


Bradley Michael


Ethan Alexander


Jacob Anthony


Ryan Christopher


Logan Gabriel


Gabriel Darius





I like Miley Olivia for a girls name.
Reply:for a boy wrench i think thats the coolest anme a i knew a kid named wrench once or mucsle thats a cool one too
Reply:Brooklyn Rene Caceres sounds wonderful and so does Darius Michael Caceres my fiance and i are having twin girls and thier names are gonna be issabella marie and gabriella rose
Reply:My boys first names are 1. Jai'Den


2. Ja'Karee( ja-car-ree )
Reply:Girl names:


Samara Nicole


Juliana ?
Reply:I like Brooklyn Rene and Bradley.
Reply:boys brad tad girls allisa lindsay
Reply:I like Brooklyn Rene Caceres and Bradley.





A good middle name to go with Bradley i think would be Parker.





Bradley Parker Caceres.
Reply:lee


scott


james


thomas





theese names all sound good as a middle name for bradley





I like the names you picked out
Reply:Bradley Joseph Caceres
Reply:I think they all work great.
Reply:Alexander Michael - all italian names, goes fairly well for a boy





Brandy Nicole





Rochelle Erin





I went to Ireland on my honeymoon and were trying for a baby there and will name it Erin Rose if successful. Erin = Ireland so she would be my Irish Rose.
Reply:How about





Bradley Jonathan Caceres, or


Bradley Jeremiah Caceres





He could use Bradley J. it sounds cool :-)
Reply:The name Jasmine sounds great, Brooklyn sounds ok, but not as good.





I like the name Darius, pretty cool! Bradley sounds ok too.





A lot of names would go well with Caceres. I thought of a few names that fit, however I'm not good with middle names.





Brian Caceres


Zachary Caceres





Sonya Caceres


Felicia Caceres





Take care, and good luck!
Reply:I don't like Brooklyn...or Bradley, but Jasmine Alicia sounds real nice and i like Darius Michael also.





Alysa Marie or maybe De'von Jermaine
Reply:um off the top of my head sam nicholas alex andy eric colby chance chase joey bennet steve mike matt aaron jared dylan taylor charles larry frank kenny todd john jeff mason jamie garret jermey jacob drake josh blake cory
Reply:Jetta Nicole is a cute girls name
Reply:ok i got one for a gurl..Cathy Caceres..


guy..Chris Caceres
Reply:Andrea Careres
Reply:Jasmine.........


or..... Bradley.


dont do Darius!
Reply:i like brooklyn much better than jasmine.... its been over done...





how about Adrion Matthew Caceres (for a boy)





Bradley Cole Caceras


Abigail Diane Caceras


Thane Michael Caceras
Reply:I LOVE THESE NAMES:





Christine Rose Caceres


Scarlett Renee` Caceres


Emmy Casie Caceres


Bridget Caceres


Chloe Anne Caceres


Candace Cameron Caceres


Alexa or Alexandria Caceres





Kenneth Caceres


Christopher Caceres


Calvin Caceres


Andrew Caceres


Nicholas Caceres
Reply:I'm always a sucker for a Patrick.


Patrick Reese Caceres.
Reply:(girls)


Brianna (did not pick a middle name) Caceres


Alicia Alic Caceres





(boys)


Christopher Alyson Caceres


Alex Anderson Caceres
Reply:For a boy: Jack Christian, Brian Michael, Adam Bradley, Jason Murray,





For a girl: Holly Barnett, Mandy Reese, Hannah Marie (ma-ree)





I don't like the name Jasmie because it reminds me of Aladdin. I LOVE Brooklyn Rene, so cute. and Darius is kinda strange
Reply:Jasmine Alicia is simply sweet and cute =)...i love it...





Darius Michael is nice...





Why not Bradley Michael or Brad Lee?
Reply:i like spencer but thats what im going to name anything else hehe


My friend just emailed me this message released by Wendy Williams...do you believe some of this stuff?

This is in the industry....(Gay and Bi)


Rappers who are bi or gay (lets go with the men because the women are


obvious):


Busta, Redman, Method Man, Q-Tip, Puffy (does it for control I think).


Dr.


Dre is straight up living a big lie. Tyrese hit Sisqo for coming on to


him


in a studio. I think McLyte is still with Pam from Martin. Russell


Simmons


throws gay parties. I heard things about LL too, Marlon Wayans (not


Shawn), of course Will


Smith, Tyson Beckford. NBA Players: Chris Webber..Steve Frances..Mobley


guy from Houston...Damion from Portland And I'm sure there are alot


more,


and they all date woman or are married..... (groupies beware !!! )





There is a crew of bisexual actresses that hang out together and most


of


them are married. They include Jada Pinkett, Jasmine Guy, Cree Summer,


Tichina Arnold, Tisha Campbell, Debbie Allen (who apparently turned out


the


whole cast of A Different World).





Beyonce is NOT the only one with a bad breath problem, Juvenile's


breath is


WORST. Larenze Tate is FINE but he is an arrogant a$$hole. Alicia Keys


DOES


I repeat DOES have a boyfriend, whether or not it's a cover-up, I don't


know but the both of them seem really serious about each other, so I


doubt


it..By the way she is NOT 22, she's 26...





Kelis is NOT 23 she's 28...You can even look it up yourselves, she


graduated from her high school class of '92





Nas is one of the coolest mofo's in the industry. He doesn't socialize


with


everybody (which I can 't blame him for) but he has to be one of thee


most


laid back people I know. One problem though, he 's just a weed and dust


addict.





Kelly Rowland is a nice person, but I think she's a lesbian. Michelle


Williams is extremely skinny and she has serious self-esteem problems.


Mark


Wahlberg aka Marky Mark has a huge d *ck for a white boy..I've seen it.


I


also heard that Brandy has a funky cooch..don't know how true this is.








Also... %26gt; %26gt; %26gt; %26gt;





Serena has dated Keyshawn Johnson, Corey Maggette and a couple of other


no


name athletes....word on the street is they all talk about how fine she


is,


but how bad she smells during sex .





Beyonce is not innocent - she had an abortion at age 18. She was


pregnant


by her ex, Lindell who resides in Houston, TX.





Laker player, Rick Fox and wife, Vanessa Williams are both infected


with


herpes .. She contracted it from her ex-hubby which was one of the


reasons


they split. Somehow Rick didn't care and married her for love anyway.


They


have one child named Sasha together, who she delivered through


c-section..





Shhhhhh..........Halle's no good in bed. She refuses to give "brain"


and


when she does she's lousy. Ms. Berry acts too good now, but back in her


Jungle Fever days she was boning both Wesley and Spike...........Wesley


beat her when he found out(not Christopher Williams folks) and she is


deaf


in her


left ear because of the beating. Loon has a male lover. Yes. Mr. Loon


prefers to be on the bottom and hopes this secret never gets out. %26gt; %26gt; %26gt;


%26gt;The same goes for Farnsworth Bentley, but you already knew that...





Mya gets around. Ever wonder why such a pretty girl is single in the


industry...well hold on to your hats for this cause here's her "hit"


list...Jay-Z, Damon Dash, Sisqo, 50 Cent, Just Blaze, Silk tha Shocker,


and


Lil X (the video director)....I hear she stooped even lower and has


added


Lil' John to the list.





Wingo from Jagged Edge is a weed addict, he loves strip joints and


taking


exstacy. His shower has hair all in it and he is having sex with his


cleaning lady/interior decorator, who is 40 years old.





Alot of them Lakers are cheats I know first hand. I'll tell you a


secret


Iknow....Shaq has a mistress in Dallas, TX. He bought her a house and


he


spends his time with her when he is in town. He called up one of the


stations one time and asked if he could dedicate "Piece Of My Love" by


Guy


to her. (off air, of course).





Allen Iverson is rude.....he told "us" he hated white girls and refused


to


tip one at the strip club one night hanging. Tyrese has white bumps on


his


d*ck. A female voluntarily told me she had sex with him and saw it.





DMX isn't the only one smoking crack rock .....(drum roll) his wife


does it


too....





Mr. Irv Gotti was caught by his wife at a hotel a couple years ago with


a


groupie. She banged on the door and beat him down and was arrested for


it,


but her dumb butt went back to him anyway . He is still with the


groupie


till this day.





WTF?

My friend just emailed me this message released by Wendy Williams...do you believe some of this stuff?
Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU! I'm officially off the "having the most boring night" list! Wow! Now I can sleep knowing Brandy has an odor problem!
Reply:Kelis is 28 and graduated in '92? Do the math!! And Will Smith is intelligent enough and confident enough he don't need to hide ANYTHING! This is so pathetic. Report It

Reply:dont know if its true but you never know with these celebs!! ha ha ha good one! thanks
Reply:I BELIEVE YOU DO HAVE PEOPLE ON THE DOWN LOW YOU JUST DON'T KNOW FOR SURE AND THE ONES THAT GET CAUGHT BY WIVES AND GIRLFRIENDS IT'S ABOUT MONEY LOOK AT KOBE BRYANT. MONEY TALKS
Reply:wendy is crazy funny. i would hate to be a celebrity and have her dishing my dirt.
Reply:is any of this true?????????
Reply:name drop much?
Reply:Who the hell cares about any of this sh1t?
Reply:Yea I heard about Beyonce breath but that's a common


thing everybody has bad breath but the rest didn't hear


about.
Reply:Nobody`s perpect!
Reply:making up stories put money in people's pocket. the only thing i can say is shawn wayans is a suspect. but he is soooo cute that i do not care.
Reply:Ya never know,,,,,,,,,,
Reply:pityfull.

daisy

Which girl name do you like best?

Amaya--night rain


Tahlia--dew of God


Jordyn--flowing


Kyla--lovely


Arielle--lioness of God (Please don't tell me about the Little Mermaid, if that were important, no one would name their child Jasmine, Belle, Anastascia, or any other cartoon princess name).





Middle name is either Jocelyn, Jolie, Lynae (Lyn-nay)--all family names, or Lily (I just think is really feminine and pretty)





Thanks :-)

Which girl name do you like best?
Since you like Lily, why not use that as a first name?
Reply:i like amaya and jordyn. and i like all the middle names
Reply:I like Arielle and Jordyn.
Reply:I love Jocelyn Amaya or Airelle Lynae
Reply:i like Tahlia Jolie or Lily


xxx
Reply:Jordyn Lily
Reply:I love Amaya Lynae and Tahlia Lily
Reply:arielle
Reply:I like the names Jordyn and Tahlia.
Reply:Wow...I like all your choices. But, my favorite is Arielle, its so sweet and feminine. I think Arielle Lily would be a beautiful name!
Reply:Kyla Lynae. Perfect name!!!
Reply:KYLA :]]]]
Reply:Amaya %26amp; Tahlia both are unique names :)
Reply:i really like the name Kyla. i think it's really original.





and the middle name with Kyla...either Lynae or Lily.


i think those go best.
Reply:aww those are ALL cute!! i would chose jordyn lynae....aww i like it!!
Reply:well all the names are actually really wonderful! its your choice! i suppose i can give you a few of my suggestions





Tanya


Kyla


Kayla


Emily


Jaquelyn


Jamie


Lenna


Alana


Christie


Kristie


Shirley


Deanna


Victoria


Hilary


kristine


Christina


Angella


Courtney


Vivian


Lilian


Fiona


Rebbeca


Chelsea





for the middle name i like Jocelyn! its nice! =) good luck!
Reply:Kyla Lynae
Reply:I liked Amaya the best.. it sounds so good.. and Tahila has a really good meaning.. so i'll go for these two.. good luck :)
Reply:Kyla Jolie or Kyla Jocelyn
Reply:They're all very pretty :-)





I like Tahlia (or Talia? that's how someone I know spells it.) Amaya and Kyla the most. And out of the middle names I love Lily and Lynae.





Tahlia Lily?





Kyla Lynae?





Amaya Lily?





Good luck, they're all lovely names.
Reply:Tahlia is my favourite, I think Tahlia Jocelyn would be perfection. Arielle and Amaya are nice too but I find Kyla and Jordyn too trendy.





Amaya Lily would be beautiful
Reply:Amaya Lynae
Reply:I like Kyla Jolie or Kyla Lynae
Reply:Amaya is very pretty and I love the meaning!
Reply:Amaya Lynae





A very dear woman by the name of Linae had an amazing impact in my life.
Reply:Amaya sounds to ethnic. Jordyn is to unisex. People wouldnt pronounce Tahlia right. I like Arielle best(my daughter loves the Little Mermaid!) and middle name I would choose Lynae.





Ariella Lynae sounds the prettiest.
Reply:Amaya Jocelyn


Tahlia Lynae


Jordyn Lynae or Jordan Lily


Kyla Jolie or Kyla Lynae
Reply:I like Jordyn and Kyla the best


Arielle I also like





Jordyn Lynae


Kyla Jolie or Kyla Lily


Arielle Jolie, Arielle Jocelyn
Reply:Kyla was actually one of my choices when naming my daughter. Although I went with Madison Faith, Kyla is still a fave! Jordyn is adorable and so is Amaya!
Reply:Amaya
Reply:Jordyn Jolie.


Hearing a voice 3 times?

ok ive heard a voice 3 times in the last 6 years or so. 2 times in the last 5 months actually the first time was like 6 years ago.





could it be where im in the half awake stage of sleep or drifting into sleep that causes it?





here a few days ago i heard it say ''hello Jasmine'' and i automatically opened my eyes and was wide awake. kinda bothered me for a bit and set me into one of my paranoidish states.





they have sounded different these 3 times.





could that just be normal and brush it off unless it comes more pronounced?





ive also had an episode where i woke up one night and thought there were aliens in my room. i was so in tune with my sences that i thought i heard it breathing. i know this sounds nuts and that i need to be put away but it litterly scared the crap outta me.





i think im a bit bipolar but here recently i loooked up something about Depersonalization and borderline personality disorder.





it would help if you looked a bit up on it and then gave your

Hearing a voice 3 times?
LAY OfF THE WEED
Reply:Everyone gets like that sometimes. I hear my name being called randomly out of nowhere, but mostly it's due to stress or lack of sleep. It has to do with your brain tricking you into thinking your name is being called.
Reply:ITS BETTER IF YOU GO TO THE PSYQUIATRIC, AND GET A MEDICINE, DONT PLAY WITH XANAX ITS ADICTIVE.


Is this a poem of love, or 'wait and see' love?

* * * * * ROSES (for Elysabeth Faslund) * * * * *








The perfume of roses, of jasmine


the smell of sweet incense


and another - indefinable -


of blessing.


When you smell these


know that Love is very near





Sweetly scented is the air


around the places you walk


ruins smell not of decay


but of living fragrances.


So flowers flourish in such places


obeying some far memory


that sweet scents should surround them.





We anoint ourselves -


attar of roses, queen of the night


- seeking to lock into that sancity


(hoping to attract others, like bees) .





Aromatic memories take us


back to those younger years


The smell of rhododendrons in the rain


of pine forests, locked on shores of silver sand


incence and the ringing of a bell.


The flowers are fragile


yet the memories remain


carried on the wind


'cross hill and plain


into the heart of one


who sings your name.

Is this a poem of love, or 'wait and see' love?
This poem is superb on so many levels. It touches on love to come, the hope of love, and the reminiscent love of love that lasts. I bow to your superior pen!
Reply:It makes me smile because that's how I feel now , so I'm saying this is truly a poem of love .
Reply:It is more a poem of lost love and its memories to me. You


make splendid usage of imagery, activate the sense of feeling, smelling, and even tasting and hearing. You seem nostalgic or wanting back once you once had or lost.





Nicely done!





Valrie in Ocala
Reply:I like this one for a miriad of reasons, the not least being the fact that I have an abnormal love for roses. My yard where I had lived before NAFTA put the company I worked for into Mexico, and put 2500 people out of work in a small Mississippi town had over 200 rose bushes in elevated beds, with a border of 14 rose trees, and a 30 foot long trellis covered walkway covered with climbing roses. The fence was covered with pink wild roses which only bloomed once a year. I had to sell and move, and the people who bought it bulldozed them all up and relandscaped the yard. That was 10 years ago, and it still pains me. Thank you for the beautiful sentiment on roses.
Reply:I don't think there's any "wait and see" about it...I consider it a poem of true love. It's beautiful, by the way.
Reply:I think it's past, present and future love. Whatever way you interpret it, it's beautiful.
Reply:It's poem TO LOVE I think. Not a love manifested in a particular form yet, but an announcement that LOVE is a viable force, that collectively we all can feel it at different points, and the memory of it, passed down from time, keeps it very much alive now and in what is to come.
Reply:It's a Lundburger poem of someone who loves flowers, nature, pleasant scents yet holding onto the memories of Scandinavia.


Fas takes us away...leading to rolling hills and mountains of Sweden and Norway carried by the songs of the wind back down to the sun drenched beaches...


Returning back to the ocean where we can sit on our decks and feast on shrimp, cracked crab and good wine...





Ha ha ha .....have I confused U yet...not really...I just enjoyed it.


You Go Girl....
Reply:Its a poem of sweet, gentle romantic love. Love as it should be..
Reply:Your words are truly beautiful. I felt it was about personal and universal love at the same time- past, present and future loves- love faraway and surrounding,all at once. Such a beautiful poem. Thank you.
Reply:Hi Elyslund,


What I get our of your poem is it's a past Love and you can't forget because of all the memories you still have.. An AWESOME poem My Friend..


A Friend,


poppy1
Reply:my interpretation of the poem is of spring and that love is in the air.
Reply:What...Huh...Poems...I can't look at another...
Reply:wow....this is amazing! it creates such powerful imagery! i can just smell the roses, the incense(sp? lol)....that was beautiful!


~Deadly Poetry


My hair always looks greasy, help!?

I shampoo %26amp; condition my hair pretty much every night.


My hair always looks greasy when it dries by itself or if i blowdry it.


It looks greasy up by my scalp and goes down like 2 inches, then i gets fine and healthy looking. I don't have dandruff or anything.


What causes this / how can i fix it?


i hope there is a way!


thanks :)


-jasmine

My hair always looks greasy, help!?
you need to stop washing your hair so much, every time you wash your hair your washing away all the natural oils that your hair produces to keep it looking nice.


and in between washes try a little baby powder on a soft makeup brush to take the greasy look off your hair.
Reply:Watercress Treatment For Oily Hair


http://geebal.blogspot.com/2007/11/homem...





check the links below for natural homemade beauty tips to:-- Dry hair / Oily-greasy hair/ Splitends


http://geebal.blogspot.com/2006/08/natur...
Reply:CLARIFYING shampoo
Reply:the reason, beleive it or not, is because you shampoo and cond. every night. you should only shampoo every three days.=-) your hair is extracting an excess amount of oils because you are stripping them all the time.... it needs some of it's natural oils to help iot look healthy, and defend it against the elements. if it bugs you that bad put a little baby powder on it and rub out the white, and that should take care of the oily look. thats what angelina jolie does=-) but make sure you wait the 3 days so your hair will be the healthiest it can be......
Reply:Once a month use redkin or neutrogena soap to wash your hair. It gets rid of build up. Also, start using a lighter conditioner. Something that says everyday or light conditioning. Or maybe skip the conditioner, and use a spray type leave in conditioner like Moisture from Paul Mitchell. Use it sparingly. If none of these works, try sprinkle baby powder on your hands rub them together to get the excess off and then run your hands through your hair at the scalp. It really works and doesn't look like there is anything in your hair.Monistat powder is a beauty secret for sure. It's marked for your hoo hoo, but its good for what i just said, as well as keeping your feet from sweating in your shoes, and keeping your pits from chafing in the summer time. A little goes a long way on the hair thing tho. Try it out at home first, till you find out what the right amount is. Also bumble and bumble make a powder for the same reason , but in blonde, brown and black shades that blend with your hair. The color is really unnecessary, and expensive, but if it makes you feel better. you will also notice that your hair has more lift at the roots if you do this.
Reply:Wash your hair with shampoo made for oily hair. Dont put any products in your hair and comb it from the roots to distribute natural oils. Dont wash your hair too much though, because your hair needs natural oil.
Reply:Try using the conditioner on the ends only. Usually that's the only area that needs conditioner anyway.
Reply:try shampoo and conditioner for oily scalp,and when you use conditioner use it mainly on mid to ends only,, and do you shampoo with very warm,, hot water?? that also causes problem.. it opens your pores on the scalp and it also produces exccess oil, so try to use warm water and give cool rinse at the end,, will give you a shiney hair too.

gary

Late period?

Iam Jasmine 23 yrs , My last period was on January 5 , According to my doctor my ovulation was on 25 Jna. On 24 %26amp; 25 I had sex with my hus. On 23,24,25,26 had a little blood in brown colour came . That I told to my doctor he told me its not a problem. Normally my period coming 32/34 , but this time my period not yet came. Today is Feb 21 means its already completed 46 days. Last Friday I gone to hospital %26amp; tale a pregnancy test. It was negative. Normally during my period time I feel too much pain. From Last week I feel too much pain from my abdomen %26amp; ovary. But its only for 2 , 3 minutes. Night time also its coming . So I cannot sleep well. For this last week I taken a ultrasound scan on my uterus part. Doctor told me no problem everything is ok.. Then today I gone to Hospital and take urine test %26amp; ultrasound scan on my Abdomen %26amp; kidney , for is there any chance for urinary infection or stone in kidney, but it was ok no problem, I saw a nephrorologist, he told me everything is ok no problem. Today its already 52days , no period, I feel pain from my vagina, and from breast.I don’t know wts happening, Anybody have the same symptoms please let me know, please give me a reply as soon as possible, with details. Iam so worried about it , ia pregnant or not ?


Thanks

Late period?
What kind of pregnancy test did you take? Urine or Blood... If you did not get a blood test then I would request one of those.


The only other thing I would say is to get a 2nd opinion from another doctor or even a ob/gyn.


Good Luck


Here is some of a book I'm writing. It is called "Chronicles of Pensulk: The Scar"?

Chapter 1








The sun had barely rose above the mountain peaks. Princess Devondra was sleeping silently in her soft, silky sheets.


It may seem she was comfy, but she was no where near it.


When she was a child, a drunken man had threw a sword and scarred, her back. Devondra was alone when it happened. She hasn't told anyone.


The worse part was that the sword that hit her, was a magician's sword. So the sword left a spell inside her. The spell was a curse, whenever she got angry, or sad, or in love the scar split open in pain. The curse also made her have horrible dreams.


Devondra never loved, got angry or sad, since. Well she has every once in a while. And she had strange dreams, every night.


Devondra woke up. She had dreamt of death. Corpses lying all around her. Cold and emotionless.


Devondra, still lying on her side, stared blankly at a picture, on her nightstand.


The picture was of her and her mother, Queen Jasmine. The picture was taken a year before she died.

Here is some of a book I'm writing. It is called "Chronicles of Pensulk: The Scar"?
sounds like an interesting story, but the wording could be better. keeping working on it!
Reply:Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.... I'm sorry to say but my story is going to be better. I've just got to find an answer for the title!


Oh, yeah. Here's my e-mail addresses.


beautyandthebeastluvr@hotmail.com


beautyandthebeastluvr@yahoo.ca
Reply:Is this some sort of romance or tragedy, since you told us about the spell.





It does sound nice though.4/5 stars.


Ive been feeling sad lately. can anyone cheer me up?

last night i had a dream that it was 1999 again and i was 5 again. i was in my old house in the netherlands and i had all my old friends. except no one was speaking dutch, they were speaking english. and i was just re-living some big events in 1999 like parties, school stuff, ceremonies, stuff like that. when i woke up it made me feel sad and i started feeling homesick.


my friend jasmine told me today that she might be moving cuz of her dad's job. i love her like a sister and i would be so depressed if she moved. she said her dad might transfer to the hospital which is like a half hour away from their house and she wouldnt have to move anywhere far away.





i need some comfort right now. if anyone can cheer me up even a little that would be great.


oh and i also have chorus tomorrow and now my dumb-a.s.s teacher thinks im depressed or something! i have no idea where she got that idea from! maybe its cuz im never happy in chorus cuz i dont like it but whatever, shes crazy!!

Ive been feeling sad lately. can anyone cheer me up?
Being that it is close to Thanksgiving here in the United States, I hope that this Thanksgiving story puts a smile on your face ...





THE GOOD NAPKINS ...ahhhhh...the joys of having Girls...


My mother taught me to read when I was four years old (her first mistake).





One day, I was in the bathroom and noticed one of the cabinet doors was ajar. I read the box in the cabinet. I then asked my mother why she was keeping 'napkins' in the bathroom. Didn't they belong in the kitchen? Not wanting to burden me with unnecessary facts, she told me that those were for "special occasions" (her second mistake).





Now fast forward a few months....It's Thanksgiving Day, and my folks are leaving to pick up my uncle and his wife for dinner. Mom had assignments for all of us while they were gone. Mine was to set the table. When they returned, my uncle came in first and immediately burst into laughter. Next came his wife who gasped, then began giggling. Next came my father, who roared with laughter. Then came Mom, who almost died of embarrassment when she saw each place setting on the table with a "special occasion" Kotex napkin at each plate, with the fork carefully arranged on top. I had even tucked the little tail in so they didn't hang off the edge!!





My mother asked me why I used these and, of course, my response sent the other adults into further fits of laughter. "But, Mom, you said they were for special occasions!!!" Pass this on to your girlfriends who need a good laugh or anyone who has a daughter !
Reply:I think the best way to cheer up is to do nice things for other people. Make some cookies and give them to your friends, give a homeless person a couple dollars, tell a friend what you admire about him/her. Whatever you can think of - get creative. That's the best way to cheer up. That and a very intense workout.
Reply:ZEF H, YOU DEFINELTY JUST MADE MY DAY WITH THAT STORY!





HILARIOUSE!!





I definelty needed that! Thanks!!





Oh, and I'm definetly passing it on! =)
Reply:Ik stond op mijn balcon en ik dacht dat ik een paar druppels regen zag. Toen ik mijn hand uitstak,viel een glazen oog in mijn palm neer. Ik keek naar boven en zag een mooie meid.


Ik ging naar boven en klopte; zij deed open en ik gaf het oog terug. We dronken koffie en uiteindelijk kwamen wij in bed terecht. Ik vroeg haar: 'Doe je dit vaak met mannen?'


'Nee,' zei ze, 'alleen degenen die mijn oog vangen'.
Reply:the dream means that times change. Your old life all the good memories of the past but no one is speaking the same language. It's "1999" about time to transition into a new millenium. Therefore, embrace change you've got your whole life ahead of you and it's going to be great.


What is the favorite brand of perfume for vampires (pontianak)?

Do they use Attar oils with essence of Jasmine/ Rose/ Bunga Tanjung?





That is what most Malaysians say about 'ghosts' and vampires, when they encounter such smells in the middle of the night.

What is the favorite brand of perfume for vampires (pontianak)?
Bunga harum sundal Malam ...
Reply:Poison?





hehehe
Reply:Hahaha, definately not anything that has garlic in it :P
Reply:lol
Reply:perfume cap pisang mentah
Reply:they use dog dung

cassell

What would you do?A must read!?

I have 3 good friends,we are really close.Well I work 11p-7a,and I went to 7-11 last night to get some coffee and a roll,and I see one of my friends with the other friends man.Now the thing is my other friend had just called me and said her man was going out with the boys.Now after 7yrs it seems like the last 3mths been kinda on the brinks.My friend was like girl he just needed someone to talk to.So I did'nt say nothing but I told her you know you wrong.He said nothing,just stayed in the back by the beer until I left.I wanna tell Michelle that I saw Jasmine with Darryl,or do I mind my buisness?They looked like they was tore up (drunk).I just want to do the right thing.Any advice!

What would you do?A must read!?
Oh that is a hard choice, if you tell Michelle she will think you are wrong, just becasue she doens't want to be hurt, if Jasmine and Darryl say you're a liar! you will lose 2 friends at once, but if you say nothing you will lose Michelle becasue she will be mad you knew and didn't say anything! I would tell Michelle but just be aware of the outcome...





Good Luck
Reply:Mind your business. I've seen these things flip, and you won't want to be in the middle. But, if there is ever a situation where you can show your friend what her boyfriend is doing, rather than just telling her, you could consider doing that.
Reply:I have to say I would not want to be you right now. What I do have to say is that although it is personal, you are friends after all. And friends, and I mean real friends would not do what your friend is doing to your other friend. So I guess you know who your friends are in this situation. If it were me, I would tell the other person who does not know what is going on because it is obvious that the other friend is not a real friend. If you lose one friend or both at least you know who your real friend is. What you could also do is to confront the one that is in the wrong and tell her that she ought to be honest. Oh yes, and the guy who is double dating is also a jerk. I would not want a guy who will be unfaithful to me and especially with a 'friend'. So in this case, her boyfriend is a jerk and so is this so called friend. And you have done the right thing. Infidelity is not a good thing,it is a disease and can be solved.
Reply:If you wanna stay friends with these people you cant say anything. The right thing would be to tell on them, but you would be losing your friends in the process. Weigh your pros and cons then make a decision.
Reply:If it'll hurt your friend more, probably best to say so she is made aware, but if you know it is for the best then do so, if not then don't. Have to balance out the negatives/positivies to it, or if you're feeling bitchy go for it.
Reply:I would suggest you to first to check what Michelle would prefer: to know the truth or to live happily ever after. Ask her. If she answers that she prefers the sweet lie, you should just shut up about the things that you have seen. But if her answer is that she prefer the reality, tell her delicately.
Reply:Do your Friends use questions and answers? If so you just told them
Reply:Mind your own business and assume the best.


Even if you share your suspicions and it's the truth, it won't matter and you will be the one who is resented.
Reply:Look at it this way, if the situation were reverse would you want to know? If so then you know what to do.
Reply:If it was a close friend, I'd tell. I'd try to act casual, in case they already knew. I'd say; Oh, btw, I bumped into Darryl and Jasmine at the 7-11 saturday.
Reply:I'd say mind your business. There is not concrete proof yet.
Reply:I would try to bring all of the parties together for a get together with their significant others and kind of feel them out watch their eyes to see if their eyes meet and dance with someone other than their spouse/significant other. If there really is something going on I'd talk to the guilty parties individually and let them know how awkward it makes you feel and how obvious they really are and what the consequences of this kind of relationship are.
Reply:This is a touchy subject. If you don't think they did anything together then don't say a word.Follow your instincts. If it looked funny otherwise then Jasmine is not as close w/ you and your other good friend as you thought. You would want your friend to tell you...wouldn't you?


Upset Tummy, Fluid Retention, Headaches & Tired?

I am 29yo with 2 young children. Over the last 2 years I have lost 37kg and feeling much better for a healthy diet and I exercise with a trainer 3-4 times a week. (Iam 165cm and 71kg now) But over the last month I have started to feel tired all the time (generally sleep 8-9hrs a night). Bloated stomach, obvious to people, terrible headaches and upset tummy with cramps and needing to go to the bathroom 3-4 times a day,-(Not everyday, about 2-3 times a week) I have not been to the doctor as I thought it was just being busy over Xmas, but now life is back to normal and has been for last 2-3 weeks and feeling worse not better. I do not take any medication, except the contraceptive pill (Jasmine) and generally have a berocca (multi-vit) most mornings. Have I got something wrong, or am I being over the top ?

Upset Tummy, Fluid Retention, Headaches %26amp; Tired?
I do think there is something wrong and I think you should atleast call your doctors office for information. It might be alot of things, but better safe than sorry.
Reply:Go see your doctor.
Reply:i think u must have eating something wrong,maybe u can't eat hot n spicy food or anything that contains milk n oil.take only soya drink n plain water,eat more fruits n green veggies.but the best is consult ur DR asap.
Reply:You should get it checked out and than you have your peace of mind. Maybe you just have a nervous tummy.


Friday, November 13, 2009

Romance lovers read this!!!!!!!!! I need to know if you think I should finish it?

She met him at the front door wearing nothing but a long satin robe and matching thongs underneath. His breathe caught in his throat as he watched her take his hand and lead him into the master bath where a tub was full of steaming scented bath water and relaxing swirls of foam caused by the hidden jets underneath. As he realized the full impact of what this night held she was slowly lowering his pants and running her long red nails down the inside of his thigh. At last those fingers returned to the part of him that ached uncontrollably only to be tormented further by there stalling along the base of his shaft. Unknowingly a moan of turtore escaped his tightly closed lips. Her eyes met his and a small teasing smile came across her face as she saw his predictament. He reached for her to bring her the same but she quickly slid to the side to avoid his taking control. No words were said and none were needed. Her hands were carassing her creamy irish skin underneath the edges of the satin. They slowly made their way down to her own pair of restraints and slipped them down to show a perfectly made triangle of curls. He was frozen to the spot where he stood as his hazel eyes slowly analyzed the treat that waited for him. Her beautiful ocean blue eyes came into focus as she moved in front of him slidding her robe off her shoulders to land in a puddle of blue on the floor. Her breasts lifted as she raised her arms to release the clamp that held her auburn hair. He drew in a quick breath of ectasy as her hair tumbled down to entrap the very breasts he ached to feel. And then the warmth of her prescence left as she stepped over into the tub and lowered her perfectioness down into the jasmine water. Without her standing in front of him he quickly noticed the chill in the air, and stepped into the hot water. Her lips parted as his skin made contact with hers. Her hands rose up out of the bubbles holding a sponge that would never know its fortune. She slowly rubbed her arms never breaking contact with his eyes. As she moved it over her tight breasts he nearly exploded with pain. Suddenly flesh was touching his and lips were tickling his collar. He knew nothing of the time or whether it was still even day. His only thoughts were of those hands running up and down his manhood, and then the burning that he felt as she took him into her. A whole new heat surrounded him and trapped him to her. He couldn't hold on, he couldn't stop the rush of pleasure that he had held back until then. Within moments he found his release while gripping her sides tightly leaving his marks on her pale skin. But the torment had only just begun. Her body was moving producing a whole new shockwave through his body. Her hands were clinching tightly to his shoulders and her damp hair hung limply behind her tilted head. The angle of their bodies put her breasts near his face and he couldn't resist the urge to sample the taste of her body. As he sucked relentlessly at her bossom the feeling of constraint wrapped itself around his arousal so he quickly stood holding her body tightly to his and made it to their king sized bed in seconds.

Romance lovers read this!!!!!!!!! I need to know if you think I should finish it?
sweet, sounds like love, but emotional or physical I don't know.
Reply:its amazing, i say you should finish it....take the e off of breath though, and the t out of predicament.....its a very good page, keep going!
Reply:Okay I thought it was going to a love story.. it's a S*x novel!





A good one though.. keep going :)
Reply:Is this a key scene to a romance novel you're working on?





I think you should definitely finish it.
Reply:so for it sounds good and yes i think a good ending would be nice
Reply:wow!!!


yes by all mean's finsih it......


Wow
Reply:Yes - finish it - it's good. But "THONGS" are beach sandles. A thong is a t -back or g string pair of panties.
Reply:good, really good you should keep going


What is the best way to end a juice fast?

i started my fast last night after half a plain yam, and stirfried mushroom, pepper and squash. and i will be on a fast for the next three days. the only things that will be injested are carrot, apple. passion fruit, blueberry, and banana juice, as well as water, and perhaps jasmine or green tea unsweetened.





i know after a fast, you need to be careful what you are eating, the whole saying of "never break a fast with a feast," so i need some suggestions for what to eat when i come out of it, it is only a three day one but that is still a strain on the system and will still be difficult to return from.





oh yeah, i am also becoming a vegaterian afterwards, (dairy and eggs included for now.)

What is the best way to end a juice fast?
Eat light foods with fiber - no refined things like candy bars. I'd start off with just fruits and vegetables for the first day, then implement your vegetarian diet. An apple should be fine at first - don't eat too much too fast. Wait about an hour before eating anything else. Start off with tiny-sized portions throughout that first day post-fast: eat often, but only very little. It can be tempting to stuff yourself full on the first day, but really, fight the urge! It's important to eat lots of natural and easily-digestible things on that first day, with lots of fiber, as that stuff will likely stay in your GI tract longer because it will have to wait another day for new food to push it out. Nuts on that first day may make you feel queasy, so don't eat any fatty, fried things - I guess cooked is okay, or steamed, but raw is better (though tougher to digest). I wouldn't eat any eggs or drink milk on that first day, since it may just run straight through you - especially dairy - if you don't have anything in your intestines to stop it (I say this from experience). Oatmeal is fine, but take it with fruit and lots of water... and avoir kiwifruit and grapefruit, as they (especially the grapefruit) will make you bloat and cause weird noises in your guts (happened to me while I was in class, sooo embarassing!). Personally, I think apples are the best bet post-fast as the first thing you should eat, and veggies, too. You should treat the first day of your fast as a "manual cleasing" of the inner channel of you gut, so don't expect to eat "normally" on that day.





Good luck!
Reply:Start back with the vegetables and the fruit...coming out of a fast is difficult, you really* have to ease your body back into it. After about two weeks of vegetables and fruit I suggest adding (veggie) protein shakes, as they will not upset your stomach as it is sensitive to solids still.


After the shakes I would think about adding pasta and some veggie sauce to it, to work back on. You need to ease your body much more AFTER a fast than you do before one. After about a week of that, you should be good to go.
Reply:It depends on how long you have fasted. I agree, apples are food #1 for fast-breaking. But start small, a 1/2 apple at first, or else you might be doubled over with cramps. I also made a vegetable broth with carrots, celery, garlic, ginger, and hot peppers. Whenever I began to eat solid foods, for 2-3 days I would also drink lots of this broth to keep it nice and liquidy in there and to prevent my stomach from being bombarded. Yogi Tea's stomach ease tea helps to prevent discomfort as your body adjusts to food again. If you've done a short fast (2-4 days) break on day 1-2, broth %26amp; miso soup, day 2-3 small amounts of raw fruits %26amp; smoothies. Day 3-4 ready for real soup %26amp; sushi!! If fasting for longer I would do this for a week. Happy fasting!
Reply:simple carbohydrates, nothing too complex.





I pesonally finish my 24 water fasts with (orange juice to start,) a small salad. I'd reccomend a small simple salad.

skin rash

Why are our Beagles lethargic at nightime?

Our Beagles became lethargic about a week ago. Jasmine(2yrs) and Frankie(1.5yrs) are both acting normal, playing, eating, normal stool. The only problem is they recently started vomiting during the night, once or twice then they are fine. Other than that they are two wonderful kids :)

Why are our Beagles lethargic at nightime?
How many times a day are you feeding them? Beagles will become nauseous and vomit up bile if their stomachs are empty. If you're feeding once a day in the morning, split the portion in 2 and feed once in the morning and once in the evening.
Reply:maby they ate something


it may br the dog food


my beagel got sick and it was because of the food
Reply:If you are feeding them too much then that can cause vomiting. Also if you recently switched brands of dog food, that could be a cause. And they can't exactly be acting lethargic and "acting normal, playing" at the same time. If they are lethargic then they will be acting drowsy and slow, and probably not playing. If the problem continues, take them to your vet.
Reply:have you asked ur vet for an opinion?


Translation of Pakistani Urdu Poem 2. Need Comments & Suggestions?

Memory


by Faiz Ahmed Faiz


Translated by S. Shariq





In desert solitude are trembling


Shadows of your voice, a mirage of your lips


In desert solitude are blooming


Amid rubble and straws


Roses and jasmine by your side





Somewhere near


You breath is warming


Enveloped in soft perfume


Far, beyond horizon, glittering


Drop by drop, and falling


Is dew of your loving eyes





With so much love


Your memory’s hand has touched


The cheek of my heart


And it feels on this lonely morn


That the day has passed


And our night has come





Copyright 2007

Translation of Pakistani Urdu Poem 2. Need Comments %26amp; Suggestions?
It is a pretty close translation. Have u done it yourself?


If so, may i request you to look into the last stanza. It can be perhaps done with more emotions. I have read the original YAAD and it was fanastic. One of my favourite poems..





Best of Luck





TW K
Reply:Solitude is singular. It should be is blooming and is trembling. Pax - C


Does she like me?

Okay, well there is this girl, her name is Jasmine and I don't know if she likes me or is just being a friend. She loves to hang out with me whenever she has time and whenever its possible. She always calls me day or night. She gives me hugs like shes never going to see me all the time, and she asked me to the homecoming, and when i said i was going to a different state and had no choice, she cried. Shes my best friend, and my friends keep telling me she loves me to death, but i dont know if she is just trying to be a friend, and i've asked her about 3 times if she liked me, and she blushed like mad, and said nooooo. Does she honestly like me or not ?

Does she like me?
It sounds to me like you both like each other. She might be afraid it will ruin your friendship if she tells you or she might be afraid of rejection.





My suggestion is to tell her how you feel about her and you might get the answer you are looking for from her.......:)
Reply:i think she does
Reply:Sounds like shes, too young or, too shy or both! If she wants you around that much and needs to hug you, she likes you!





Maybe not the way you would like and unless your in a hurry, just give it a little time and she'll let you know how she really feels.





If she's been giving you those great hugs, she knows how you feel!





Good Luck!
Reply:she loves u so muchhhhhhhhhhhhh. it's obvious.
Reply:yes u should ttly ask her out dude she is into u!
Reply:i think she honestly likes u....now the question is if u like her?
Reply:duh!!! ask her out. if you two are such best friends she'll say yes
Reply:of coure she likes you!!!just ask her out, if she sais no, be fine with it and act cool, next day show up with the best girl you can get


but the question u have to ask yourself is if U like HER!!!


blessings :)
Reply:she likes u a lot and is just sayin she doesnt cause she doesnt want u 2 know cause girls can get embarassed about things like that.


Late period?

Iam Jasmine 23 yrs , My last period was on January 5 , According to my doctor my ovulation was on 25 Jna. On 24 %26amp; 25 I had sex with my hus. On 23,24,25,26 had a little blood in brown colour came . That I told to my doctor he told me its not a problem. Normally my period coming 32/34 , but this time my period not yet came. Today is Feb 21 means its already completed 46 days. Last Friday I gone to hospital %26amp; tale a pregnancy test. It was negative. Normally during my period time I feel too much pain. From Last week I feel too much pain from my abdomen %26amp; ovary. But its only for 2 , 3 minutes. Night time also its coming . So I cannot sleep well. For this last week I taken a ultrasound scan on my uterus part. Doctor told me no problem everything is ok.. Then today I gone to Hospital and take urine test %26amp; ultrasound scan on my Abdomen %26amp; kidney , for is there any chance for urinary infection or stone in kidney, but it was ok no problem, I saw a nephrorologist, he told me everything is ok no problem. Still have the pain. My doctor told me come after one week. .I don’t know wts happening, Anybody have the same symptoms please let me know, please give me a reply as soon as possible, with details. Iam so worried about it , ia pregnant or not ?


Thanks

Late period?
Ok you can do a few things number 1 go get a pregency test, 2 call a doctor call in OB/GYN not your primary doctor, 3 it could be normal because I was 13 years old when i did not have my period for 2 months and my mother thought I was pregnent and found out it was negaitve and i am still a vergin at that age I was not intrested in boys or even sexs,4 just do not stress it becuase that is what is effecting it, are you having stress at home or at work or even if you are in college if soo that is what is driggering it it happened to me many times during the years of my period it is normal

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Fighting cats!?

Yesterday we got two six-month old cats, Rodney and Jasmine. Both from different litters but get on very well together. They were fine last night but have started fighting today. Does anyone know why and if/when it'll stop??

Fighting cats!?
Hopefully when they are old enough you will have them neutered as fighting can be a prelude to mating.





It's possible they are playing.





It's also possible they are attempting to establish their territories.





It's a good idea to keep a spray bottle of water handy. When they start fighting, spray them. The important thing is NEVER to let them see that it's you who is spraying them. The reason for that is then they will associate you with punishment and not do the unwanted behavior only when you are around to spray them.
Reply:You're welcome. Report It

Reply:Maybe you were showing more affection for one over the other?
Reply:Unless one of your cats went outside for a brief moment and got a smell on her. Or it could be that one of the cats wants to be left alone. My two month old cats do the same thing. When one cat wants to be left alone and doesn't want to play with the other, it hisses or scratches. And they'll do that for hours until they finally give in and start wrestling. They'll be friends again sometime the next day.
Reply:they are just working out who is the boss it will stop soon
Reply:1st of all, I am always suprised when people write comments and say " oh it will die down soon"


I have 7 cats and there is only one solution to get multiple cats to get along





YOU HAVE TO BE THE ALPHA CAT...





Yup , you heard right.. You have got to let them know that neither one gets the power because its yours... I know that may sound strange but I have 3 females and 4 males and they know when I am upset with one or more of them..


It's like they look at the cat that got in trouble and said " Hahhaa, You got in trouble"





Yes , they are seeking to be the dominant cat. If you want to wait for the solution,,, It could take a long time...Especially . if you have 2 very stubborn cats ( cats are naturally stubborn anyway)





The easiest way is to become the Alpha cat .. You make the rules and that solves it.. I know it works .. I am not saying there still won't be problems but There will be less problems...


Cats are like little kids and you have to be the parent... Hope this helps..
Reply:When you first got home with your cats, they were probably a little frightened after traveling and arriving in an unfamiliar place. Then as soon as it got dark, they felt more secure about exploring and getting acquainted with their new environment. The next step then is to establish who's going to be the boss...


Cats establish a hierarchy and constantly keep re-establishing it as new cats are introduced into the home and they test each other to see who will be king or queen of the castle. Sometimes they both think they are, and can't convince the other who's in charge...


They may or may not stop fighting, only time will tell.
Reply:it will die down but right now they are fighting to be the top cat. in every home were there is more than one cat one is alway in chage of the rest. my mom's cat dollie is like this and will show who is boss. so no worrys and if the fighting gets bad get a spray bottle fill it with water and change the setting from mist to the other one and get them wet its the best way to stop the fighting
Reply:Make sure you get them both fixed. Then see if the problem persists. If it does in time one will become the more dominant cat and the other will submit. Just part of nature.


Anyone looking for bridesmaid dresses/cocktail dresses?

I have 5 beautiful black dresses purchased as bridesmaid dresses, but can be worn for a night out!





They have never been worn or altered and still have the tags on them.





Jasmine b2





Style # B1509





Black strapless netting dress with ruched bodice at the bust and waist with ribbon and bow at empire, comes with detachable spaghetti straps


sizes available are 10, 12, 14, 14 and 16





they retail for $160.00...make an offer

Anyone looking for bridesmaid dresses/cocktail dresses?
why don't you put it up on ebay, i'm sure a lot more people will be interested there
Reply:I suggest putting these on EBay you can either put them as a lot--which means they are sold all 5 together or separate.


Should this poem be improved in any way?"?

Come Back To Me Tonight





I'm tired of hearing what you have to say


I'm tired of looking at your pretty face


Day by Day I wonder if,


I could come home now and sit


By you, maybe hold you


Look at me face to face


Never lie to me but cry to me


In the Day's night


In the moon's light


In the twilight's surface distress


Your thoughts linger now in my head


I miss you so much


I feel like I'm dead


Take me now from my mind


From the midnight's hollow binds


Take a breath of coldness and turn it into fright


Now come back to me again


On this dark and silent night








Oh and I'm only 13 and if you would like to see more go to


www.poetry.com-jasmine Kling

Should this poem be improved in any way?"?
I applaud you for being brave enough to post. Not knowing the WHO, the context relates to, the essence of the piece works.





You jump from rhyme to NON, though it may work for you?





In the Day's night (is this an error?)


In the moon's light





"In the days light


and the Moons at night??





"Take this chilled breath, turned to fright


come back to me please


On this dark, silent night"





Not at all a Fan of P.com, but your efforts are applaudable





Steven Wolf





One final. You change the TENSE from the beginning to end???
Reply:Wow! I'm impressed, when I was 13 I could barely tie my shoelaces. The first thing I notice is the intensity and honesty of the emotions. The second thing is the poem's strong musicality. I would definitely buy the CD if and when you do make it. One thing I got a kick out of is the punctuation, which consists of exactly two commas. Since those are the only pauses, it worked this way for me: the first three lines are a statement of how you feel, and the rest is an outpouring of the emotions themselves. And there's no period at the end. I think that means that the situation remains unsolved, the emotion goes on in you, and you don't know what will happen next. I like the subtle and somewhat humorous use of irony: "I'm tired of looking at your pretty face," and paradox: "I miss you so much I feel like I'm dead," and "the Day's night" followed by "the moon's light." The ending is very powerful, another profound and subtle double use of paradox. First, the emotions are so intense that they are numbing. Second, that the remedy for this numbness needs to be "a breath of coldness." Were you intellectually aware of all I have said when you wrote this, or do you have a very good intuitive sense of creativity? Thank you for this poem. It takes a good amount of courage to ask for other people's opinions. As far as "improving," no way! It's perfect, and you can't do better than perfect. I'm going to your website right now.
Reply:its good
Reply:very creative dont change a thing except maybe the number of sylybles is a few lines
Reply:i like it. it sounds like a song. maybe if u know any friends who are in a band u could show it to them. the only thing is the part that says "i miss u so much. i feel like im dead". it doesn't sound like it fits with the more creative parts of the poem. maybe u should try to put more emotion or describe the feeling in a more poetic way. but really other than that i enjoyed it.
Reply:thats pretty good, i like it.
Reply:How about this way:





I'm tired


of hearing what you have to say


I'm tired


of looking at your pretty face


Day by day I wonder


Could I come home now and sit?


Hold you?


Look at me


face to face


Never lie to me,


but cry to me


In the day's light


in the moonlight


in the twilight surface distressed


you linger in my head,


and I miss you


I feel like I am dead


take me; now


from my mind


from midnight's hollow binds


take a breath of coldness,


and turn it into fright


Now come back to me


this dark and silent night


Boyfriend Problems: Stay or Leave?

My boyfriend and I have known each other for quite some time and we have been dating for over 4 months. Everything was great in the beginning and he was so sweet. He took me out often and bought me gifts for Valentine's day. The simple things he did were even sweeter. I ran out of apple juice (my favorite drink) and he surprised me with 2 huge gallon bottles. Another time we met late at night and after we kissed and hugged goodbye he yelled loudly across the gate "Goodnight Jasmine!!!!" That made me grin with happiness. Oh, can't forget to mention that I lost my virginity to this guy.





From the beginning, I knew he had a lot of female friends. Before we officially got to together he said he had his "flaws" and that he didn't want to hurt me. He said he was new to the whole serious relationship thing. Which I now think is just an excuse.





Lately, things have just gone downhill. He doesn't call me or text me like he used to.





[To be continued.....]

Boyfriend Problems: Stay or Leave?
To be continued? honey i think you should talk to him and let him know everything that you are thinking, good AND bad. Communication is the best thing in a relationship..i learned that . And maybe if you let him know how you feel about things He will understand and react to whatever hes doing wrong. I Know that the last thing u want now is to break up because thi guy will be very important to you since u lost your virginity with him. I totally understand what u are saying.


I guess my advice is talk it out and go allthe way for him, if he isnt interested in the relationship. then he will let you know.


But as longas you fight for him, and u sho him that U care, u will always know that u tried enough and that u did your part.





And i just wanna add, that no, relationships dont fade. yes u can get more comfortable with time and all but happines doesnt fade in a relationship.
Reply:I don't have too much experience with this, but I've been in a few relationships that lasted over a year, and they slowly went downhill beyond repair. It sounds like this is what yours is doing. If you're questioning breaking up with him and you're not happy, then break up with him. There's not much of a point in trying to fix it if he's not going to put forth the effort to do so. You can't change him or fix it yourself... from what you've said, it seems like the best option is to just move on.
Reply:hi,


if you feel there is still relationship there then it is worth fighting for. but i don't see a relationship there he got what he wanted and now he is trying to run. it is the oldest game in the book you were a notch on his belt, or a induction into a particular men's club, it happens to some people, and just because he was a friend for a while and you boyfriend for a few months makes no difference at all. forget about him and go on with your life, getting even could be a option but it takes time to plan a plot of revenge and little or no time to show him up by being the better person and getting on with your life and becoming something special
Reply:honey, all relationships start off rosy and then reality sets in. you are probably correct in saying that he is using the new to the whole serious relationship thing. im glad you picked up on that. it means you aint stupid and your not gonna be blinded by his bullsh!t. i think its time you two break it off before things get any worse and you begin to lose respect for one another. tell him it was good while it lasted.
Reply:If you are questioning whether to stay or go chances are that you should go. Especially if you think that there is someone else involved.





If you are young, there is plenty of time left for you to find the right one and there will be a lot of wrong ones along the way. Chalk him up as a wrong one and find yourself a nice guy.
Reply:He got what he wanted and is moving on.....it happens..next time dont be so easy.
Reply:Look sometimes we win some and sometimes we loose some. It is all a game. It just up to u how u play it. When u make moves u have to think about the moves that u make. Some times we move w/o thinkin and then say dag I should have moved there. I say this to say some men don't think long like us women do. We have to think like them (men) at times.





Some men know how to get to us. We at the attention and all the lil stuff that is done in the begining, and after the men think that they can relax and start to floor off. That's when we say what happen why or what happen to all that u were doing, where did it go?





Just by us taking ang making the moves that we made, they saw that there was other moves that could've been made but we didn't. So they say well she's not payin attention so I am gonna do me.





I would do some evaluating, first w/ myself then him and if u feel that there's something left hold on and make things work. But if things don't look right to u, leave y u have a change.


And whatever u do always use protection.
Reply:My suggestion to you is to move on. He is obviously not ready to make any kind of commitment and wants to play the field. Don't call him or be available for him. He needs to see that you are moving on and not longing for him. If he is the right one for you, he will come back. If not, then you are better off. Don't make it easy for him to come and go in and out of your life. Ignore him for awhile and see what happens. In my "dating" days, I had similar problems and found that when all of a sudden I wasn't available and didn't answer the phone, things changed fast. Men can't stand it if they think you are no longer "pining" for them. LOL
Reply:Communication is key in any relationship

gordon