I need some serious help right now...?

This is between me and one of my great friends.


I was at a party last night, and I came across one of my friends, named Jasmine. She was fricking drunk and she started to fly around the room everywhere and crash into lamps and such. So, (I was sober at time), i decided to take her home.


As we got near her house, she started acting even weirder. She started confessing all these crimes that she THOUGHT she did. When I put her in her house, she grabbed me by my collar and threw my on the couch and she tried to strip me, but I knew she was drunk, so I tried to run, but she wouldnt let me go. Then she dropped, and fell asleep, and for some reason so did I. When I woke up she was standing over me, with no clothes on. She tried to convince me to have sx with her, but I had to say no. She explained that she has loved me for an extremely long time and that she needed to express her feelings toward me.





The problem is that I am in the middle of a relationship and I know im willing

I need some serious help right now...?
i think you already know the answer to this.....its obvious you want to be with her...so to be fair to the your girlfriend, i'd tell her you want to split cause your not sure what you want right now...it gives her the chance to move on as well ......good luck...
Reply:Consider how you feel for ur current gf and ur ex. Is your current gf just a fling? do you really love ur ex? who do you see with a longer, stable relationship? dont lie to yourself about your feelings and dont try to convince yourself of who you really want. be honest about your feelings to yourself and organize your emotions about these girls.
Reply:She isn't your friend. She has a drinking problem. You do not need this in your life. don't ask her out and try to avoid her by all means. If you are in a relationship stay in it. You do not need her problems.
Reply:Aw, poor bandito. Go for the one you love, not the one you feel obligated to....
Reply:dont cheat on your current gf but you cant help your feelings , and if your even thinking about splitting up with her for your ex then truthfully she doesnt mean that much to you ?
Reply:stay with ur gf u have now if u love her. but if u love this other girl more then u can go for her.


just don't cheat at all. worst decision.





good luck :P
Reply:Cheating is definitely not the right thing to do.


Who do you like best? Maybe you and Jasmine grew up from your high school days and changed . . . or maybe you really weren't the right guy for her . . .


Ask yourself:


Am I happy with my relationship right now?


Will I be able to end this relationship for someone else?


Was Jasmine just drunk when she said that, or was she meaning it?





Since Jasmine was drunk at the time, I say just to forget about her. She probably wasn't thinking. Maybe your gf right now is more responsible than she is. Think about it: Jasmine litterly took you, a guy in a relationship and started having sex with you! If you two were in a relationship, how do you know that she won't cheat on you with another guy??





*~Julie~*
Reply:First, ask yourself this question: Did she plant these feelings inside of you by saying she was in love with you while she was drunk, or have you always felt like this? If someone were to confess their love for me, I would be seriously tempted to say it back, even if I really didn't. It's a normal trait in human beings. If your answer is the second, consider this: Who's more important, your current girlfriend, or Jasmine? If you can't decide right now, wait a few days, clear your head, and then think about it again. If these girls care about you, they can wait.





Lastly, I commend you on not having sex with your friend. Had you agreed, it could have been one of the biggest mistakes of your life.
Reply:dont do it. If you love your gf then you wouldnt fall for a naked drunk. just think to yourself, what can she give that your gf isnt giving. sorry but cant stand girls that cant handle their drink. If you think she's worth loosing your gf over then go ahead.





summary: you got what you need, if you want a better sex life then talk to your gf about what you both want.





hope you make the right decision