Backstabbing/dating/friends?

ok this is very complex and long so bear with me.


it includles 3 friends a one guy.


1) Meh


2) Whitney


3) Jasmine


4) Buck





it started out like this


Buck is my 2nd cousin. he started to work for my dad on our hay farm about 2 years ago. he still does to this day. during that time he started to like me. he still does. my best friend at the time was whitney. she had a huge crush on buck. i got them to go to 8th grade prom together and they started dating that night. all went well. till May. Whitney had a pool party and Buck, Jasmine, Meh, and another friend (hillary) where there. After that day unknown to whitney, buck and I, jasmine started to crush on buck, WHILE whitney and him where dating. august-- we go to highschool, jasmine %26amp; buck have all classes together. Buck finnally told me his feelings, i told him we where related and that would be werid and yeah i dont like him that much. Soooo. he started to dress goth. whitney didnt like that at all. but he started to flirt with,

Backstabbing/dating/friends?
STay true to yourself!!!!! Befriend Whitney and hang out with her cause shes hurt and needs a friend. Jasmine is gonna act funny now that she has a man but as soon as they start having problems in their relationship shell want someone to hang with and want someone to talk to. Its up to you to decide whether or not you gonna be their for her when she does stop acting funny. Tell her how you feel !!!! Ask her why shes blowing off her homegirls and let her know that she can have a man and still stay true to you guys. GOOD LUCK!!
Reply:NO YOUR GOING ABOUT IT WRONG!!!PUT YOUR BULLHEADEDNESS ASIDE AND MAKE THE FIRST STEP AND TALK TO HER FIRST!!!!! Report It

Reply:What is the problem? You got a Buck in the family isn't it? I don't see what your real problem is. There is nothing you have to do but carry on. Nothing in life remains the same. They are having a nice time, but when people have romantic relationships it is different from other kinds of friendships where you basically just consciously choose. That is more complicated. There is much emotion involved and they find themselves sharing more time together. Maybe you can just be happy for them. The 'I run out then you run in' saga was worst. There is a calm now. Bask in it. Peace.