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I have 3 good friends,we are really close.Well I work 11p-7a,and I went to 7-11 last night to get some coffee and a roll,and I see one of my friends with the other friends man.Now the thing is my other friend had just called me and said her man was going out with the boys.Now after 7yrs it seems like the last 3mths been kinda on the brinks.My friend was like girl he just needed someone to talk to.So I did'nt say nothing but I told her you know you wrong.He said nothing,just stayed in the back by the beer until I left.I wanna tell Michelle that I saw Jasmine with Darryl,or do I mind my buisness?They looked like they was tore up (drunk).I just want to do the right thing.Any advice!

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Oh that is a hard choice, if you tell Michelle she will think you are wrong, just becasue she doens't want to be hurt, if Jasmine and Darryl say you're a liar! you will lose 2 friends at once, but if you say nothing you will lose Michelle becasue she will be mad you knew and didn't say anything! I would tell Michelle but just be aware of the outcome...





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Reply:Mind your business. I've seen these things flip, and you won't want to be in the middle. But, if there is ever a situation where you can show your friend what her boyfriend is doing, rather than just telling her, you could consider doing that.
Reply:I have to say I would not want to be you right now. What I do have to say is that although it is personal, you are friends after all. And friends, and I mean real friends would not do what your friend is doing to your other friend. So I guess you know who your friends are in this situation. If it were me, I would tell the other person who does not know what is going on because it is obvious that the other friend is not a real friend. If you lose one friend or both at least you know who your real friend is. What you could also do is to confront the one that is in the wrong and tell her that she ought to be honest. Oh yes, and the guy who is double dating is also a jerk. I would not want a guy who will be unfaithful to me and especially with a 'friend'. So in this case, her boyfriend is a jerk and so is this so called friend. And you have done the right thing. Infidelity is not a good thing,it is a disease and can be solved.
Reply:If you wanna stay friends with these people you cant say anything. The right thing would be to tell on them, but you would be losing your friends in the process. Weigh your pros and cons then make a decision.
Reply:If it'll hurt your friend more, probably best to say so she is made aware, but if you know it is for the best then do so, if not then don't. Have to balance out the negatives/positivies to it, or if you're feeling bitchy go for it.
Reply:I would suggest you to first to check what Michelle would prefer: to know the truth or to live happily ever after. Ask her. If she answers that she prefers the sweet lie, you should just shut up about the things that you have seen. But if her answer is that she prefer the reality, tell her delicately.
Reply:Do your Friends use questions and answers? If so you just told them
Reply:Mind your own business and assume the best.


Even if you share your suspicions and it's the truth, it won't matter and you will be the one who is resented.
Reply:Look at it this way, if the situation were reverse would you want to know? If so then you know what to do.
Reply:If it was a close friend, I'd tell. I'd try to act casual, in case they already knew. I'd say; Oh, btw, I bumped into Darryl and Jasmine at the 7-11 saturday.
Reply:I'd say mind your business. There is not concrete proof yet.
Reply:I would try to bring all of the parties together for a get together with their significant others and kind of feel them out watch their eyes to see if their eyes meet and dance with someone other than their spouse/significant other. If there really is something going on I'd talk to the guilty parties individually and let them know how awkward it makes you feel and how obvious they really are and what the consequences of this kind of relationship are.
Reply:This is a touchy subject. If you don't think they did anything together then don't say a word.Follow your instincts. If it looked funny otherwise then Jasmine is not as close w/ you and your other good friend as you thought. You would want your friend to tell you...wouldn't you?