My boyfriend and I have known each other for quite some time and we have been dating for over 4 months. Everything was great in the beginning and he was so sweet. He took me out often and bought me gifts for Valentine's day. The simple things he did were even sweeter. I ran out of apple juice (my favorite drink) and he surprised me with 2 huge gallon bottles. Another time we met late at night and after we kissed and hugged goodbye he yelled loudly across the gate "Goodnight Jasmine!!!!" That made me grin with happiness. Oh, can't forget to mention that I lost my virginity to this guy.
From the beginning, I knew he had a lot of female friends. Before we officially got to together he said he had his "flaws" and that he didn't want to hurt me. He said he was new to the whole serious relationship thing. Which I now think is just an excuse.
Lately, things have just gone downhill. He doesn't call me or text me like he used to.
[To be continued.....]
Boyfriend Problems: Stay or Leave?
To be continued? honey i think you should talk to him and let him know everything that you are thinking, good AND bad. Communication is the best thing in a relationship..i learned that . And maybe if you let him know how you feel about things He will understand and react to whatever hes doing wrong. I Know that the last thing u want now is to break up because thi guy will be very important to you since u lost your virginity with him. I totally understand what u are saying.
I guess my advice is talk it out and go allthe way for him, if he isnt interested in the relationship. then he will let you know.
But as longas you fight for him, and u sho him that U care, u will always know that u tried enough and that u did your part.
And i just wanna add, that no, relationships dont fade. yes u can get more comfortable with time and all but happines doesnt fade in a relationship.
Reply:I don't have too much experience with this, but I've been in a few relationships that lasted over a year, and they slowly went downhill beyond repair. It sounds like this is what yours is doing. If you're questioning breaking up with him and you're not happy, then break up with him. There's not much of a point in trying to fix it if he's not going to put forth the effort to do so. You can't change him or fix it yourself... from what you've said, it seems like the best option is to just move on.
Reply:hi,
if you feel there is still relationship there then it is worth fighting for. but i don't see a relationship there he got what he wanted and now he is trying to run. it is the oldest game in the book you were a notch on his belt, or a induction into a particular men's club, it happens to some people, and just because he was a friend for a while and you boyfriend for a few months makes no difference at all. forget about him and go on with your life, getting even could be a option but it takes time to plan a plot of revenge and little or no time to show him up by being the better person and getting on with your life and becoming something special
Reply:honey, all relationships start off rosy and then reality sets in. you are probably correct in saying that he is using the new to the whole serious relationship thing. im glad you picked up on that. it means you aint stupid and your not gonna be blinded by his bullsh!t. i think its time you two break it off before things get any worse and you begin to lose respect for one another. tell him it was good while it lasted.
Reply:If you are questioning whether to stay or go chances are that you should go. Especially if you think that there is someone else involved.
If you are young, there is plenty of time left for you to find the right one and there will be a lot of wrong ones along the way. Chalk him up as a wrong one and find yourself a nice guy.
Reply:He got what he wanted and is moving on.....it happens..next time dont be so easy.
Reply:Look sometimes we win some and sometimes we loose some. It is all a game. It just up to u how u play it. When u make moves u have to think about the moves that u make. Some times we move w/o thinkin and then say dag I should have moved there. I say this to say some men don't think long like us women do. We have to think like them (men) at times.
Some men know how to get to us. We at the attention and all the lil stuff that is done in the begining, and after the men think that they can relax and start to floor off. That's when we say what happen why or what happen to all that u were doing, where did it go?
Just by us taking ang making the moves that we made, they saw that there was other moves that could've been made but we didn't. So they say well she's not payin attention so I am gonna do me.
I would do some evaluating, first w/ myself then him and if u feel that there's something left hold on and make things work. But if things don't look right to u, leave y u have a change.
And whatever u do always use protection.
Reply:My suggestion to you is to move on. He is obviously not ready to make any kind of commitment and wants to play the field. Don't call him or be available for him. He needs to see that you are moving on and not longing for him. If he is the right one for you, he will come back. If not, then you are better off. Don't make it easy for him to come and go in and out of your life. Ignore him for awhile and see what happens. In my "dating" days, I had similar problems and found that when all of a sudden I wasn't available and didn't answer the phone, things changed fast. Men can't stand it if they think you are no longer "pining" for them. LOL
Reply:Communication is key in any relationship
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I have a recipe for Love Potion #9 who wants it?
Love Potion #9: In a small pot, simmer a half cup of jojoba oil and, moving your spoon clockwise, stir in 9 drops each of the following essential oils: ambergris, cinnamon, frankincense, jasmine, lavender, musk, orange blossom, rose, violet, and ylang ylang. Let cool and store in a dark glass container. Dab yourself with it as you would your favorite perfume before a night out (or a night in) to drive your loved one wild with desire.
I have a recipe for Love Potion #9 who wants it?
Kewl, thanks.
How does it work for you? Can you come over tonight and we can test it out for about 10 hours or a life time!
Reply:HOT PATOOTIE BLESS MY SOUL
Reply:a study was done and the scent of cucumbers drove people wild.
Reply:oooh
Reply:WHERE'S THE BEEF?
Reply:Sweet thanks, do you want to come over tonight???
Reply:Sounds like Euphoria...I can go buy it at Macy's.
Reply:Oh yeah, like I have all this lying around. And wouldn't it attract all kinds of unwanted behavior from the weirdos????
I have a recipe for Love Potion #9 who wants it?
Kewl, thanks.
How does it work for you? Can you come over tonight and we can test it out for about 10 hours or a life time!
Reply:HOT PATOOTIE BLESS MY SOUL
Reply:a study was done and the scent of cucumbers drove people wild.
Reply:oooh
Reply:WHERE'S THE BEEF?
Reply:Sweet thanks, do you want to come over tonight???
Reply:Sounds like Euphoria...I can go buy it at Macy's.
Reply:Oh yeah, like I have all this lying around. And wouldn't it attract all kinds of unwanted behavior from the weirdos????
How can i re-write this to make it better..????
i wrote this for my journilasm class for a senior, in a nice way of saying good by..ho can i re-write this to make it better
Whether it’s hanging out with her friends, or taking part of the schools yearbook Sophie Hafeez has a sure way of making her mark. Many will remember her for smarts, and happy attitude. Students like Daniela Malone “I met Sophie freshmen year” she says. “We were in class together, and I guess we just started talking, and then we grew closer. Wow I won’t ever forget sophomore year with her, we hung out all summer we had movie nights, where we checked out a lot of movies, and just eat, and we eat a lot. We were best friends, and I’ am really going to miss seeing her at school.”
“I had here last semester” said Mr. Ballinger Senior project teacher. “She excelled in many different parts of the class.” With hopes of being a Pediatrician, Sophie hopes to accomplish these dreams at FGCU. Many remember the joyous moments that they share with, many like Jasmine Villanueva “ I met Sophie 4 years ago in English class, and every since she would be in one of my classes, I remember I had Ap European, then as a junior weight lifting, and this year she was in my Sociology class. I will never forget when Chrissy pushed her down the stairs, or sometime when Chrissy was beating her up.”
“I met her in fifth period last year.” Says fellow class mate Tyrone Davis. “I remember grad night I was beating her up.” But students like Gabriela Sanchez-Paz told us of the sweeter side of Sophie. “I remember meeting her freshman year during school, trough friends. We had some good times together, I will miss Sophie she was my valentine, and she will always be my valentine.”
How can i re-write this to make it better..????
Whether it's hanging out with friends or taking part in the school yearbook, Sophie Hafeez sure has a way of making her mark. Many students will remember her for her intelligence and positive attitude. Students such as Daniela Malone who said, "I met Sophie during freshman year. We were in class together and we started talking, then, we grew closer. I won't ever forget sophmore year with her. We hung out all summer and spent time together on movie nights, where we checked out a lof of movies and ate all the time. We were best froends and I am really going to miss seeing her at school."
you can do the rest based on this. Watch your tense confusion, You are writing statements from people concerning the past so don't use present tense verbs. And make sure that your subject and verb agreement matches. Singular with singular and plural with plural.
Whether it’s hanging out with her friends, or taking part of the schools yearbook Sophie Hafeez has a sure way of making her mark. Many will remember her for smarts, and happy attitude. Students like Daniela Malone “I met Sophie freshmen year” she says. “We were in class together, and I guess we just started talking, and then we grew closer. Wow I won’t ever forget sophomore year with her, we hung out all summer we had movie nights, where we checked out a lot of movies, and just eat, and we eat a lot. We were best friends, and I’ am really going to miss seeing her at school.”
“I had here last semester” said Mr. Ballinger Senior project teacher. “She excelled in many different parts of the class.” With hopes of being a Pediatrician, Sophie hopes to accomplish these dreams at FGCU. Many remember the joyous moments that they share with, many like Jasmine Villanueva “ I met Sophie 4 years ago in English class, and every since she would be in one of my classes, I remember I had Ap European, then as a junior weight lifting, and this year she was in my Sociology class. I will never forget when Chrissy pushed her down the stairs, or sometime when Chrissy was beating her up.”
“I met her in fifth period last year.” Says fellow class mate Tyrone Davis. “I remember grad night I was beating her up.” But students like Gabriela Sanchez-Paz told us of the sweeter side of Sophie. “I remember meeting her freshman year during school, trough friends. We had some good times together, I will miss Sophie she was my valentine, and she will always be my valentine.”
How can i re-write this to make it better..????
Whether it's hanging out with friends or taking part in the school yearbook, Sophie Hafeez sure has a way of making her mark. Many students will remember her for her intelligence and positive attitude. Students such as Daniela Malone who said, "I met Sophie during freshman year. We were in class together and we started talking, then, we grew closer. I won't ever forget sophmore year with her. We hung out all summer and spent time together on movie nights, where we checked out a lof of movies and ate all the time. We were best froends and I am really going to miss seeing her at school."
you can do the rest based on this. Watch your tense confusion, You are writing statements from people concerning the past so don't use present tense verbs. And make sure that your subject and verb agreement matches. Singular with singular and plural with plural.
For Londoners, what is the best club and pub to visit on my spring break week?
I'll be there March 2007 with Jasmine and we have so much to see and do in the day.At night, we are up for anything.Love pubs(we're English majors) and love to dance too.We like to hop from one place to another but don't mind staying at one place if it is fun and safe.What do you recommend(name of place, why, and the social setting expectation)?
For Londoners, what is the best club and pub to visit on my spring break week?
Covent garden is the trendiest place to hang out. So many pubs, clubs and bars. I especially recommend Maxwells a great American diner and an absolutely superb cocktail menu.
For Londoners, what is the best club and pub to visit on my spring break week?
Covent garden is the trendiest place to hang out. So many pubs, clubs and bars. I especially recommend Maxwells a great American diner and an absolutely superb cocktail menu.
My Husband is Cheating on me?
I met this amazing man, But recently I found out he's been cheating on me. We've been married for about 6 months and I found out That I was pregnant about a week ago and I am crying really hard at night because I love him so much and he's dating another girl named Jasmine. He hasn't told me that he's been cheating but I found out by his phone, he left it at home and she called and left a message and I read it. I don't know what to do!
I love him and I'm pregnant and he's cheating on me. He never seemed ecxited that I was going to have a baby. I am really sad. What do I do?
My Husband is Cheating on me?
This is the worst time he could possibly do this. I am so sorry for you. You should leave him for your own health and the health of your baby.
Reply:Being Pregnant make you emotional none the less. My advice is to leave him. Better you found out after 6 months in the marriage than years down the road - after having built your dreams with his. I know it hurts - but do you want your child raised with a man like that? If he did it to you - he'll do it to her. Get an anullment NOW before you have to split all your stuff. You can do it. I am a single mom of 3 and am much happier NOW than having a lieing cheatn' no good dog around me and my kids. Its tough but you can do it.
Reply:ooohhh I am so sorry to hear this. I know how you feel. You can barely breath... I would talk to him about it and I would also call her and see if she even knows he has a wife.. You certainly need to think about talking to your family about staying with them for a while and probably should see a counselor. You definately do not deserve this... I will keep you in my prayers. I hope you do not stay married to him because he will do this again... Trust me I have lived through this same thing.
Reply:Well when before you tell him that you know, make sure he is with that girl and call the cops on him so that you don't get screwed if he leaves you and also your the one that is going to have that baby so don't let that affect you and forget him.
Reply:You're now at a stage where there's nothing left to do but talk it out with him. If you can't get anything from that, then there really is nothing left to do. I can understand the pain in your heart, but unless and until he doesn't there's no way for this relationship to work. You will have to leave him. Life is a very long game. If nothing works out, move on. About the child, im sorry, i really have no suggestions that I can give you (being a male myself).
Good luck.
Reply:see that's where you have it all wrong.
if i did the same thing to my wife, she's already hired a hitman for Jasmine, and after she takes out 10 million dollar life policy on me, she has me dead shortly after.
and that is why i would never even dream about cheating on her.
i really love my wife.
Reply:talk to him about this matter express how much u love him and how much u depend on him and u need him express all these things and make a point that u r the only person in this world would love so much if he doesn't care about what u r saying means then u must believe that that person all these days was cheating u complaint to police to break a girls heart is equal to murder don't leave him
Reply:I personally would not stay in that kind of relationship especially because you are pregnant. You are putting yourself at risk for diseases because you don't who all he is with. but if you talk to him, i have seen people who have changed. He needs to stop if you are going to stay with him. Give him the choice. If he continues then walk away. best of luck
Reply:You need to talk to him about the situation. Figure out if your marriage can be saved, or if you need to move on and go your own way (he'd still be responsible for child support).
We can't tell you what to do...you have to make that decision yourself but it needs to start with communicating about this, and then you'll have to decide beyond that (counseling? divorce? him promising to stop and you wait and see?)
Reply:I feel really sorry for you
but i suggest you confront him and think about leaving
he obviously is not loving you and treating you right
and you need to think if you really can bear living with him knowing hes cheating on you and is not bothered with his baby.
good luck.
Reply:ok this is what i would do:
i'd divorce him, move farrr away so he will never see the baby and then he will end up getting hurt so it goes both ways. id think he doesnt deserve to see the baby...these men can be such bitches.. just cause their not the ones giving birth to a baby they think they can **** and sleep aroud all they want! ugh dirty bitches
but then again thats just me
Reply:its useless for you to love him the thing that he is not excited having a baby with you it is clear enough that he don't love you anymore leave him your baby will make you complete... but first talk to him to make things clear.
Reply:As much as it sucks, throw him out and focus on your health and the baby. What an ahole...cheating after 6 months. What the heck did he get married for if he couldn't keep his pants on! Ugh! Sorry girl...hang in there, but get rid of him!
Reply:GIRL CONFRONT HIM AND kick him out for good ..................you deserve someone better and that truly loves you and if i were you i would also call the number back and talk to that b*****
GOOD LUCK AND CONGRATS ON THE BABY ..........
Reply:I say talk to him about it. See whats going on but it looks as if divorce is your best choice. After all who wants to be with a man who can't stay faithful for 6 months? Good luck.
Reply:There is absolutely nothing amazing about this guy except how easily he got in your pants. Call Jerry Springer.
Reply:leave him!!! its obvious that he doesnt love you as much as you love him.... this will in turn become a very unhealthy relationship...
Reply:Confront him about it and tell him he will have to choose between you and the other girl.
Reply:He sounds less then amazing to me. Leave him.
Reply:Get a divorce
Reply:Divorce him and get child support....He sure doesn't sound amazing to me....
Reply:You are 13 years old....stop lying and wasting everyones time with your questions that are full of lies!
Reply:are you sure???? what DID the message say?
Reply:Child support AND Alimony...you gotta love this country!
Reply:What an amazing piece of ****. Walk away babe, just walk away!
Reply:I'm gonna go with Ashleigh's comment above...what did the message say?? How often do women misconstrue what they read or hear because we automatically assume it's for the worst? Maybe it's some chick he rejected trying to get him back by saying sexy things in text messages. You need to sit down with your husband and discuss what you saw before you jump to such hasty conclusions. Secondly, what married man having an affair leaves his cell phone lying around when he goes out? Thirdly, who's even named Jasmine anymore? Sorry, beside the point. Anyway, before you get yourself sick with worry over something potentially blown out of hand, talk to him. You took vows for "better or worse" so it's up to you to uphold them just as much as him. If he's cheating, and you can forgive him, then forgive him. If you can't forgive, and you can live with it...still divorce him. It's not a good environment to bring your baby into - a man that you don't respect as his father. Good luck with whatever you choose, but make sure you think it through because this is your baby's life you're also making decisions for, not just yours.
Reply:You will need to confront him. There are two ways he can react. He might admit to everything, open up, get help, be embarrassed and want to fix himself. He should be willing to be an open book completely (you have access to the cell phone, he lets you know where he is, etc) until he EARNS back your trust. But, don't bank on it...chances are, he'll admit it and waffle and make up excuses and fudge and hope to continue his affair while getting you to "trust" him again. I've been through this...the only hope is for you to put your foot down and demand that he act like a man, protect you and the child, and live up to his promises. If he can't, then he's not able to be an effective father and you might need to consider a split. But remember something - the split will have its own issues...the other woman may become his stepmother someday! Take a deep breath for now...there will be tough times ahead. Take care.
Reply:You deserve so much better. And for the babies sake try not to get to upset. You could end up having a miscarriage due to stress. If he does not have the respect you enough to respect your marriage for more than 6 months then think about the many years to come. And remember you do not need to be married to raise a child. This is the kind of situation that you want to seriously think about your child first, it is no longer about you. Do you want your child to grow up in an unhappy home? If your husband is willing to cheat on you, what else is he willing to do? "I KNOW" it can be one of the hardest choices in your life to realize this amazing man, is just a man who is not perfect. Good luck, but remember, it is no longer about just you, but the child you hold within you.
Reply:You will have to let him know what you found out... Give him the opportunity to tell you exactly what is going on... Don't surmise anything....
If it is such the case that he indeed is "stepping out" on you... you have to face the problem and move from there..
As painful as it is....especially with a new baby coming, it is imperative that you get to the truth of the matter.
Maybe he is fearful of becoming a father? The responsibility of raising a child is an awesome task. Talk with him when you are calm... or as calm as you can be...
If he wants to keep his marriage.. he will tell you, hopefully.
If not, you won't have the choice of trying to keep him.
You deserve someone who loves you and wants to share their life with you.
Communication is the key here.. as painful as it may be..
Better to know what he wants and feels then to hope for the
the rosy future with someone who wants to share the wealth with others.... You know what I mean....
I don't think I would want to be with someone who doesn't want me... if that's the case...
Talk to him and see where he is in his life...
Take care.... and remember that you have a new life coming into this world... you are blessed.
Reply:Well, there are several things going on here. Too many women just assume that their getting pregnant will/must be 100% accepted by their man. No, this is the sort of issue where BOTH people need to discuss it, beforehand, so that, when and if it happens, BOTH people are willing and happy for it to occur. So, its quite possible that your announcement about being pregnant has upset him, and that he is acting out, badly, I agree, because of that. Did you two discuss and agree on having a baby before you got pregnant ?
Given that mess, then you need to discuss all of this with him. Crying and moping is for children, who are passive when faced with life. Adults are active and they take charge of life, and take steps to arrive at better results. Your choice. Mope
of deal and make it better.
"No, do or do not. There is no try." Yoda, The Empire Strikes Back.
Reply:I say you confront him with this, and give him the chance to be a real man and come clean, and fix the situation.
You need to tell him clearly, that you don't want to continue if this is going to be his standard mode of operation.
If he starts lying about it, making excuses, etc., then get away from him IMMEDIATELY, move in with someone who can protect you (in case this guy becomes a psycho), and see a divorce attorney.
By the way, It does no good to try to threaten him, like "you stop seeing her or I'm leaving, and I'm going to sue you for everything you've got" blah blah blah.
He should not be faithful just because you threaten him. He either has character, or he doesn't, and that exists outside of being threatened.
It's also dangerous, because if he's a bad guy, you can get hurt doing this.
PM me if you want more advice.
(I'm a guy, by the way)
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I love him and I'm pregnant and he's cheating on me. He never seemed ecxited that I was going to have a baby. I am really sad. What do I do?
My Husband is Cheating on me?
This is the worst time he could possibly do this. I am so sorry for you. You should leave him for your own health and the health of your baby.
Reply:Being Pregnant make you emotional none the less. My advice is to leave him. Better you found out after 6 months in the marriage than years down the road - after having built your dreams with his. I know it hurts - but do you want your child raised with a man like that? If he did it to you - he'll do it to her. Get an anullment NOW before you have to split all your stuff. You can do it. I am a single mom of 3 and am much happier NOW than having a lieing cheatn' no good dog around me and my kids. Its tough but you can do it.
Reply:ooohhh I am so sorry to hear this. I know how you feel. You can barely breath... I would talk to him about it and I would also call her and see if she even knows he has a wife.. You certainly need to think about talking to your family about staying with them for a while and probably should see a counselor. You definately do not deserve this... I will keep you in my prayers. I hope you do not stay married to him because he will do this again... Trust me I have lived through this same thing.
Reply:Well when before you tell him that you know, make sure he is with that girl and call the cops on him so that you don't get screwed if he leaves you and also your the one that is going to have that baby so don't let that affect you and forget him.
Reply:You're now at a stage where there's nothing left to do but talk it out with him. If you can't get anything from that, then there really is nothing left to do. I can understand the pain in your heart, but unless and until he doesn't there's no way for this relationship to work. You will have to leave him. Life is a very long game. If nothing works out, move on. About the child, im sorry, i really have no suggestions that I can give you (being a male myself).
Good luck.
Reply:see that's where you have it all wrong.
if i did the same thing to my wife, she's already hired a hitman for Jasmine, and after she takes out 10 million dollar life policy on me, she has me dead shortly after.
and that is why i would never even dream about cheating on her.
i really love my wife.
Reply:talk to him about this matter express how much u love him and how much u depend on him and u need him express all these things and make a point that u r the only person in this world would love so much if he doesn't care about what u r saying means then u must believe that that person all these days was cheating u complaint to police to break a girls heart is equal to murder don't leave him
Reply:I personally would not stay in that kind of relationship especially because you are pregnant. You are putting yourself at risk for diseases because you don't who all he is with. but if you talk to him, i have seen people who have changed. He needs to stop if you are going to stay with him. Give him the choice. If he continues then walk away. best of luck
Reply:You need to talk to him about the situation. Figure out if your marriage can be saved, or if you need to move on and go your own way (he'd still be responsible for child support).
We can't tell you what to do...you have to make that decision yourself but it needs to start with communicating about this, and then you'll have to decide beyond that (counseling? divorce? him promising to stop and you wait and see?)
Reply:I feel really sorry for you
but i suggest you confront him and think about leaving
he obviously is not loving you and treating you right
and you need to think if you really can bear living with him knowing hes cheating on you and is not bothered with his baby.
good luck.
Reply:ok this is what i would do:
i'd divorce him, move farrr away so he will never see the baby and then he will end up getting hurt so it goes both ways. id think he doesnt deserve to see the baby...these men can be such bitches.. just cause their not the ones giving birth to a baby they think they can **** and sleep aroud all they want! ugh dirty bitches
but then again thats just me
Reply:its useless for you to love him the thing that he is not excited having a baby with you it is clear enough that he don't love you anymore leave him your baby will make you complete... but first talk to him to make things clear.
Reply:As much as it sucks, throw him out and focus on your health and the baby. What an ahole...cheating after 6 months. What the heck did he get married for if he couldn't keep his pants on! Ugh! Sorry girl...hang in there, but get rid of him!
Reply:GIRL CONFRONT HIM AND kick him out for good ..................you deserve someone better and that truly loves you and if i were you i would also call the number back and talk to that b*****
GOOD LUCK AND CONGRATS ON THE BABY ..........
Reply:I say talk to him about it. See whats going on but it looks as if divorce is your best choice. After all who wants to be with a man who can't stay faithful for 6 months? Good luck.
Reply:There is absolutely nothing amazing about this guy except how easily he got in your pants. Call Jerry Springer.
Reply:leave him!!! its obvious that he doesnt love you as much as you love him.... this will in turn become a very unhealthy relationship...
Reply:Confront him about it and tell him he will have to choose between you and the other girl.
Reply:He sounds less then amazing to me. Leave him.
Reply:Get a divorce
Reply:Divorce him and get child support....He sure doesn't sound amazing to me....
Reply:You are 13 years old....stop lying and wasting everyones time with your questions that are full of lies!
Reply:are you sure???? what DID the message say?
Reply:Child support AND Alimony...you gotta love this country!
Reply:What an amazing piece of ****. Walk away babe, just walk away!
Reply:I'm gonna go with Ashleigh's comment above...what did the message say?? How often do women misconstrue what they read or hear because we automatically assume it's for the worst? Maybe it's some chick he rejected trying to get him back by saying sexy things in text messages. You need to sit down with your husband and discuss what you saw before you jump to such hasty conclusions. Secondly, what married man having an affair leaves his cell phone lying around when he goes out? Thirdly, who's even named Jasmine anymore? Sorry, beside the point. Anyway, before you get yourself sick with worry over something potentially blown out of hand, talk to him. You took vows for "better or worse" so it's up to you to uphold them just as much as him. If he's cheating, and you can forgive him, then forgive him. If you can't forgive, and you can live with it...still divorce him. It's not a good environment to bring your baby into - a man that you don't respect as his father. Good luck with whatever you choose, but make sure you think it through because this is your baby's life you're also making decisions for, not just yours.
Reply:You will need to confront him. There are two ways he can react. He might admit to everything, open up, get help, be embarrassed and want to fix himself. He should be willing to be an open book completely (you have access to the cell phone, he lets you know where he is, etc) until he EARNS back your trust. But, don't bank on it...chances are, he'll admit it and waffle and make up excuses and fudge and hope to continue his affair while getting you to "trust" him again. I've been through this...the only hope is for you to put your foot down and demand that he act like a man, protect you and the child, and live up to his promises. If he can't, then he's not able to be an effective father and you might need to consider a split. But remember something - the split will have its own issues...the other woman may become his stepmother someday! Take a deep breath for now...there will be tough times ahead. Take care.
Reply:You deserve so much better. And for the babies sake try not to get to upset. You could end up having a miscarriage due to stress. If he does not have the respect you enough to respect your marriage for more than 6 months then think about the many years to come. And remember you do not need to be married to raise a child. This is the kind of situation that you want to seriously think about your child first, it is no longer about you. Do you want your child to grow up in an unhappy home? If your husband is willing to cheat on you, what else is he willing to do? "I KNOW" it can be one of the hardest choices in your life to realize this amazing man, is just a man who is not perfect. Good luck, but remember, it is no longer about just you, but the child you hold within you.
Reply:You will have to let him know what you found out... Give him the opportunity to tell you exactly what is going on... Don't surmise anything....
If it is such the case that he indeed is "stepping out" on you... you have to face the problem and move from there..
As painful as it is....especially with a new baby coming, it is imperative that you get to the truth of the matter.
Maybe he is fearful of becoming a father? The responsibility of raising a child is an awesome task. Talk with him when you are calm... or as calm as you can be...
If he wants to keep his marriage.. he will tell you, hopefully.
If not, you won't have the choice of trying to keep him.
You deserve someone who loves you and wants to share their life with you.
Communication is the key here.. as painful as it may be..
Better to know what he wants and feels then to hope for the
the rosy future with someone who wants to share the wealth with others.... You know what I mean....
I don't think I would want to be with someone who doesn't want me... if that's the case...
Talk to him and see where he is in his life...
Take care.... and remember that you have a new life coming into this world... you are blessed.
Reply:Well, there are several things going on here. Too many women just assume that their getting pregnant will/must be 100% accepted by their man. No, this is the sort of issue where BOTH people need to discuss it, beforehand, so that, when and if it happens, BOTH people are willing and happy for it to occur. So, its quite possible that your announcement about being pregnant has upset him, and that he is acting out, badly, I agree, because of that. Did you two discuss and agree on having a baby before you got pregnant ?
Given that mess, then you need to discuss all of this with him. Crying and moping is for children, who are passive when faced with life. Adults are active and they take charge of life, and take steps to arrive at better results. Your choice. Mope
of deal and make it better.
"No, do or do not. There is no try." Yoda, The Empire Strikes Back.
Reply:I say you confront him with this, and give him the chance to be a real man and come clean, and fix the situation.
You need to tell him clearly, that you don't want to continue if this is going to be his standard mode of operation.
If he starts lying about it, making excuses, etc., then get away from him IMMEDIATELY, move in with someone who can protect you (in case this guy becomes a psycho), and see a divorce attorney.
By the way, It does no good to try to threaten him, like "you stop seeing her or I'm leaving, and I'm going to sue you for everything you've got" blah blah blah.
He should not be faithful just because you threaten him. He either has character, or he doesn't, and that exists outside of being threatened.
It's also dangerous, because if he's a bad guy, you can get hurt doing this.
PM me if you want more advice.
(I'm a guy, by the way)
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Introduction to a teenager diary/book I wrote. Would you want to continue reading?
4-1-2008
So, here I am at home. It's about 2:30 pm ( I think I may start putting the time next to the date up there) and I am pretty bored, considering the fact that my dad is "sick" and I decided not to go to school today. Therefore, my dad decides he is taking away everything from my internet to playing guitar hero! :/ Whatevs, I stopped caring a while ago. As for my dad being "sick", I think he may have a minor headache ( which is totally normal for him, it's called asprin or whatever ) and sore throat. Even though he sounds terrible when he's talking, I just don't know. I don't think it was worth him staying home from work for a whole two days! I don't even have room to be talking to be brutally honest. This morning I had this bad feeling right in the pit of my stomach, but now I feel completely fine after a four good hours of sleep! :) Around noon, I told Mr. Ouch! My throat hurts, no work for me! that I was feeling better and wanted to get ready and go to school, but no! Of course not! Anything Jasmine wants today she isn't getting, even if it is returning back to school, which I am getting in trouble for in the first place! :Z All this is how ended up with this "journal" thing. I am so freaken' bored I resorted to clearing all the **** off my computer, and starting a journal on here! I guess it isn't too bad of an idea. I mean, I spend most of my time on this thing anyway. I should come up with a name for it! Haha. How about...Bertha?! Nah, I use that name all the time. Um...Andy! That's it! From now on my computer is going to be refered to as Andy, at least by me anyway. I probably won't write on this everyday. I will probably only write on it when I am either a.) extremely bored or b.) really feeling low about something. I tried writing in a diary a couple times. Let's just say actually writing things about the sick and twisted story of my life, is not my thing. :)
4-1-2008 6:21pm %26lt;%26lt;The time :)
Hi, for the second time today! How are you? I am pretty pissed off. I'm a teenager, I'm hormonal, I'm blah blah blah. I have heard it a jillion times. So then, does every teenager feel like the whole world is out to get them? I swear! Annie (dad's physco girlfriend) and my father make up so much **** on the spot! It's like they dig and dig and dig for more for more things to use against me or ***** at me about. For example, I make one smart comment and they start yellin' at me for that, (which is halfway understandable) but then they sit there for the rest of the night and look for something to scream at me for! Like, later on I pour kool-aid on the counter instead of over the sink. Lord help us all! According to Annie and dad that is the end of the world and we need to ground Jasmine for it! Then, they keep saying, "I am the adult, and you are the child." I just wanna scream out, "THEN WHY DON'T YOU START ACTING LIKE ONE?!" Of ourse if I did that they would either a.) murder me right there on the spot or b.) ground me in my prison cell of a room for the rest of the month! What is a girl to do in this situation? Help!%26gt;.%26lt;
Introduction to a teenager diary/book I wrote. Would you want to continue reading?
I wouldn't continue reading this.
For one, the entries are one big block of text. Second, your character rambles. Also, she sounds insincere and dull. Finally, it's just some character's psychobabble.
I understand that this is how a typical teenage journal might sound (it hasn't been too long since I was there myself,) but this is writing and in writing prose--whatever format you put it in--has to be tight, concise, and interesting. I'm afraid that this is just the opposite right now.
Without knowing more about the project, I can't offer much advice. I can offer a few bits, though. For one, focus on conflict. Real conflict. Overarching conflict that will drive your character's story. Next, tighten up the writing, watch the crazy punctuation, and the rambling sentences.
Almost any idea can be pulled off well. However, poor execution will ruins the most brilliant concepts. Tread carefully, act professionally, and keep writing. Good luck!
So, here I am at home. It's about 2:30 pm ( I think I may start putting the time next to the date up there) and I am pretty bored, considering the fact that my dad is "sick" and I decided not to go to school today. Therefore, my dad decides he is taking away everything from my internet to playing guitar hero! :/ Whatevs, I stopped caring a while ago. As for my dad being "sick", I think he may have a minor headache ( which is totally normal for him, it's called asprin or whatever ) and sore throat. Even though he sounds terrible when he's talking, I just don't know. I don't think it was worth him staying home from work for a whole two days! I don't even have room to be talking to be brutally honest. This morning I had this bad feeling right in the pit of my stomach, but now I feel completely fine after a four good hours of sleep! :) Around noon, I told Mr. Ouch! My throat hurts, no work for me! that I was feeling better and wanted to get ready and go to school, but no! Of course not! Anything Jasmine wants today she isn't getting, even if it is returning back to school, which I am getting in trouble for in the first place! :Z All this is how ended up with this "journal" thing. I am so freaken' bored I resorted to clearing all the **** off my computer, and starting a journal on here! I guess it isn't too bad of an idea. I mean, I spend most of my time on this thing anyway. I should come up with a name for it! Haha. How about...Bertha?! Nah, I use that name all the time. Um...Andy! That's it! From now on my computer is going to be refered to as Andy, at least by me anyway. I probably won't write on this everyday. I will probably only write on it when I am either a.) extremely bored or b.) really feeling low about something. I tried writing in a diary a couple times. Let's just say actually writing things about the sick and twisted story of my life, is not my thing. :)
4-1-2008 6:21pm %26lt;%26lt;The time :)
Hi, for the second time today! How are you? I am pretty pissed off. I'm a teenager, I'm hormonal, I'm blah blah blah. I have heard it a jillion times. So then, does every teenager feel like the whole world is out to get them? I swear! Annie (dad's physco girlfriend) and my father make up so much **** on the spot! It's like they dig and dig and dig for more for more things to use against me or ***** at me about. For example, I make one smart comment and they start yellin' at me for that, (which is halfway understandable) but then they sit there for the rest of the night and look for something to scream at me for! Like, later on I pour kool-aid on the counter instead of over the sink. Lord help us all! According to Annie and dad that is the end of the world and we need to ground Jasmine for it! Then, they keep saying, "I am the adult, and you are the child." I just wanna scream out, "THEN WHY DON'T YOU START ACTING LIKE ONE?!" Of ourse if I did that they would either a.) murder me right there on the spot or b.) ground me in my prison cell of a room for the rest of the month! What is a girl to do in this situation? Help!%26gt;.%26lt;
Introduction to a teenager diary/book I wrote. Would you want to continue reading?
I wouldn't continue reading this.
For one, the entries are one big block of text. Second, your character rambles. Also, she sounds insincere and dull. Finally, it's just some character's psychobabble.
I understand that this is how a typical teenage journal might sound (it hasn't been too long since I was there myself,) but this is writing and in writing prose--whatever format you put it in--has to be tight, concise, and interesting. I'm afraid that this is just the opposite right now.
Without knowing more about the project, I can't offer much advice. I can offer a few bits, though. For one, focus on conflict. Real conflict. Overarching conflict that will drive your character's story. Next, tighten up the writing, watch the crazy punctuation, and the rambling sentences.
Almost any idea can be pulled off well. However, poor execution will ruins the most brilliant concepts. Tread carefully, act professionally, and keep writing. Good luck!
How well do you know your classic rock?
Okay, ten points to the first one who get's this song correct!! I will show you some lyrics, then give you some background history. Here it goes:
"See the curtains hanging in the window
In the evening on a Friday night
A little light a-shining through the window
Lets me know every thing's all right..."
Summer _____, makes me feel fine
Blowing through the jasmine in my mind
Summer _____, makes me feel fine
Blowing through the jasmine in my mind
..."See the smile a waiting in the kitchen
Food cooking and the plates for two
Feel the arms that reach out to hold me
In the evening when the day is through."
How well do you know your classic rock?
Summer Breeze by Seals and Crofts
Reply:breeze
i have the type o negative version
Reply:Summer Breeze -- Seals and Croft
Reply:Yes
Summer Breeze by Seals and Croft
Reply:BREEZE...Seals and Croft
"See the curtains hanging in the window
In the evening on a Friday night
A little light a-shining through the window
Lets me know every thing's all right..."
Summer _____, makes me feel fine
Blowing through the jasmine in my mind
Summer _____, makes me feel fine
Blowing through the jasmine in my mind
..."See the smile a waiting in the kitchen
Food cooking and the plates for two
Feel the arms that reach out to hold me
In the evening when the day is through."
How well do you know your classic rock?
Summer Breeze by Seals and Crofts
Reply:breeze
i have the type o negative version
Reply:Summer Breeze -- Seals and Croft
Reply:Yes
Summer Breeze by Seals and Croft
Reply:BREEZE...Seals and Croft
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